[dzine21]

HOw do I talk to dh about not caring right now? I mean, how do I do it without hurting his feelings? He was just so gung ho last month telling me he was 95% sure we'd catch it-then we didn't. Has anyone had this talk with dh?

[stowers2k3]

Have you been letting him know how upset you were that led up to this point? I would think he would take it better if he knew for a while now you were upset or getting exhausted, kwim?

I'm def not one to give advice on this tho cause I hide basically all the ttc ups and downs from my dh cause I don't want to break his heart or watch the disappointment on his face when it's not a BFP. I don't want to take the excitement away from him I guess.
Sorry I'm not a better help!

[TabithaE]

Have you been letting him know how upset you were that led up to this point? I would think he would take it better if he knew for a while now you were upset or getting exhausted, kwim?

I'm def not one to give advice on this tho cause I hide basically all the ttc ups and downs from my dh cause I don't want to break his heart or watch the disappointment on his face when it's not a BFP. I don't want to take the excitement away from him I guess.
Sorry I'm not a better help![/b]

I feel for you. My dh gets so sad when I start AF, I stopped doing the poas thing because I could see myself going into debt buying out every store so I could test 3-4 times a day. Dh just holds me while I cry and try to go thru the last 2 wks, seeing if I did something wrong. I know it hurts him, he wants this as much as me. We're 9 months post vasectomy reversal, this is my first ttc, he has a 10y daughter. Why is it so hard? Growing up I thought you could get pg on the first time-what happened to that?
Anyways, good luck this cycle! I promised to not obsess about getting pg, everyone says as soon as they stopped trying they got pg. Not sure why that helps, but willing to try anything at this point.