[A_Marine's_Wife]

ok so i though id post down hear since we have been TTC for well over a year and i havent posted down hear yet so im gonna ask ya all question and see if anyone can tell me what is causing it cues i really dont know?

ok so iv been charting for 14 cycles now though we have been TTC longer than that. any way what would cause my LP not to be constant for a while it was between 14and 15 days which is normal but it seems to be getting longer my last one was 18 days before af showed. Its driving me nuts i though that my LP was supost to be constant so how come mine isant and what could be causing it. IM not taking any meds besise prenatal vitimans folic acid and now a baby asprin im gonna give Vitex a try this next cycle if i dont get a BFP this time around im in the 2WW bye the way well it could be longer than 2 weeks for me. so what gives how in the heck am i supost to know when im late if my lp is not consistant. help me out this is so frustrating me. thanks a bunch everyone

and Merry Christmas

[dzine21]

Did you test at all before af showed last month? And how was AF? Normal? Heavy? Light?

[A_Marine's_Wife]

Did you test at all before af showed last month? And how was AF? Normal? Heavy? Light?[/b]

ok well last cycles af i had spotting for like two days before she came then i had one day of decent flow and then 3 days of prity light flow and one day of spotting. since i went off Bc two years agaio they havent been like they were before i went on BC. but i think my last Af was lighter. im wating to see if af will show this cycle im only 8dpo and im trying to figure out when to expect her. its friving me nuts that its changing so mutch. i though for shure last cycle i was pregnant af was late i was told bye a bunch of peopel my chart was triphasic. then all the sudden my temp went down and af came. iv been having a sorta cramping off and on for a couple days now. and every now and then this crazy flutter feeling which i think is in the mustle feels kinda like when your eye twitches lol its the only way i know how to explaine it. and two days agaio when i checked my CP it had a funkie feeling in it sorta pinchie feeling but that was the only day i knoticed that. did that help any and i havent tested yet this cycle

[cocosmumNco]

I get that flutter feeling its werid isn't it had it ages it goes and comes back as for your lp. to be honest it sounds like ff getting your ov dates wrong. (do u do your chart though ff) if you don't mean could u post me a link so i could take a look. do u test or watch your cm?

[A_Marine's_Wife]

I get that flutter feeling its werid isn't it had it ages it goes and comes back as for your lp. to be honest it sounds like ff getting your ov dates wrong. (do u do your chart though ff) if you don't mean could u post me a link so i could take a look. do u test or watch your cm?[/b]

Yes i use FF and the link is in my siggie just click my name and it should pop up. I do check my CM and CP and it coensides with what FF is telling me my O date is. I also have more intrest in Sex in the few days leading up to ovulation which is what leads me to believe my O date is right iv always had a good temp rise thats visible. iv only seen mabie once that FF might have been wrong but the day i though i Od on and the day FF told me were only a day apart so it wasent that far off. it really doesent make any since.

[cocosmumNco]

hmm your temps r very irratic sometimes that can be a sign somethings wrong. do u temp at the same time every day? before u get out of bed? and after 4 hours sleep?
been reading a few things u may have a hormone imblance. i think possible you may need to speak to your doctor how long have u been ttc?

[dzine21]

ok, Did you test before af last month?

[A_Marine's_Wife]

hmm your temps r very irratic sometimes that can be a sign somethings wrong. do u temp at the same time every day? before u get out of bed? and after 4 hours sleep?
been reading a few things u may have a hormone imblance. i think possible you may need to speak to your doctor how long have u been ttc?[/b]

I temp consistantly 4:15 every morning and i go to bed between 10 and 11 every night so im getting enough sleep. we have been TTC for about 16 monts well charting and trying and for about 6 months before Dh deployed we were ttc but i wasent charting then. I saw a fertility doc before dh got oto fthe military and we lost our medical inshrance and our new one hasent picked up yet he has to be with the company for like 6 months any way they checked my thyroid did a bunch of blood test and a 24 hour pee test (for the lack of me being able to spell what its really called) he declared my thyroid working fine and my hormones good but i still think they should have checked my hormones at different points in my cycle not just onc which happend to be at the begining of my cycle. i the longer Lp seem to be a more recent thing last cycles was really long.

and iv still got that crampy pulling thing going on off and on this morning. i really hope its a sign were gonna get a BFP but im trying not to get my hopes up too mutch

[cocosmumNco]

I hope its a bfp hun. maybe when u get insuranse sorted u should go see doc hormones change all the time but while your waiting try reflexology its great for hormane imblances i was conviced i had one had one month of reflexology and i was pg. good luck hun

[A_Marine's_Wife]

I hope its a bfp hun. maybe when u get insuranse sorted u should go see doc hormones change all the time but while your waiting try reflexology its great for hormane imblances i was conviced i had one had one month of reflexology and i was pg. good luck hun[/b]

Iv been massageing my reflexology points for my reproductive organs and what not for about a month now i dont have any sore spots but i keep massaging them to keep them healthy. and iv been doing Dhs also about every other day his are sore so iv only been doing them every other day. I hope i Get a BFP i so could use that good news right now keep praying for me