[diznynurse]

I don't know where else to post this so I'm posting here since you ladies have been ttc for a while and most longer than me. Tonight I found out my sister in law is pg. I'm very happy for them, it is her second baby and hopefully for my brother's sake it's a boy. They already have a girl. But they haven't been trying for more than a couple of months, and to hear her talk they haven't been "trying" at all!!!! I know you all know how this feels, this is just the first time I can say that I hurt inside because I'm not pg. I'm crying here because I want a baby so bad and it's just not happening for me. My sister in law never wanted to "get pg" in the first place. She was always going to adopt, then she had my niece and she said "I'm done, no more" now here she is pregnant! I just don't know. I think I'll just curl up in a ball and go to sleep. I'm sure I'll feel better tomorrow. I know I'll feel better when I can bd during my fertile days.

I hope everyone had a great New Years!

[kim fellinger]

i am sorry you're feeling down. i have found that chocolate chip cookie dough icecream, sweats, and bed help!!!! HUGS

[Jessesgirl04]

I can completely relate. It always stinks to hear about how easy it is for some people when we've been ttc for so long. I was very spoiled in the past because I always got pregnant very easily. I'm guessing this is one of those life lessons to teach me patience or something! LOL! ((((((Hugs))))))

[JellyBean]

Yep, we've all been there. Hearing about those women who weren't even trying in the first place. I'd be sad too, but know that you'll get your BFP the exact second you're meant to! It's just a matter of being patient. And that's hard!

Get a good night's sleep. You'll feel better in the morning.

[flyingpiglet]

drawing a nice hot bubble bath always helps me...I light some candles turn off the lights in our bathroom and sometimes burn some incense...I hope you start to feel better. My 16 year old cousin just found out she is pg....its heartbreaking when you want one so bad and you are completely ready and it is just not happening. Hang in there we are here for you!

[BobbiC]

I have been there with the sister in law being pg. I know how you are feeling and it sucks. I know that when the time is right you will get your bfp.

[dzine21]

I know exactly how you feel. My SIL got pg the month before we m/c. She claimed they wanted another, just not so soon. Then she m/c and we found out we were pg. When we m/c the second time she found out she was pg again. My BIL told my dh right away they were pg-just so he'd tell me and they didn't have too. Then they waited to tell the rest of the family until the 1st trimester was over. So, yeah, they weren't ready to have another. Grr. I'm sending ((mega hugs)) your way because it does suck.

[dinamommy]

Oh, I'm sorry you're feeling so sad! It really is frustrating sometimes. I hope you are feeling better today.