[cocosmumNco]

has there ever been a time while u have been with your dp and u have thought this isn't going to work or this isn't what i want?

[sylph21]

i know there have been a few times when af has got me, that made me think "this is never gonna happen...i just can't do it." And sometimes when Kylie behaves badly, (which is hardly ever) I think, do I really want to go through all of this again???

Michelle, what has you thinking this way???

Taylor

[cocosmumNco]

well hes back and i can't even stand to look at him guess its angry i don't know. think i need to think this though

[sylph21]

Aww, hun...it's that bad??? Sure does sound like it... Go ahead and think it all through. It will eventually all come clear to you.

[cocosmumNco]

i hope i can get back what ever has been there for past 5 year. maybe i'm just tired of this. kind of expected my life to be different at 25

[Pollyf]

Hi Shell,
This happened to me and Gordon 4 years ago, i just couldn't stand him, everything about him annoyed me, and i just felt i would quite like to be on my own, i asked him to leave and he went back to his mum's, the first week was brilliant, i came home from work at night, took tierney out a walk or would just sit
and bath her, read to her and put her to bed, i enjoyed my own time and felt really that this is what i wanted, after about a week and a half, i realised i really missed him, i tried asking him to come back and he refused, his pride had been hurt, we ended up apart for 6 weeks, during this time i was really upset, cried all the time, couldn't concentrate on work and just wanted to be by myself, everytime he came to get tierney and i saw him i just wanted him more, eventually i told him i was going away for a week with Tierney to sort myself out, i really only went to my sisters, i did this to stop myself from phoning, texting or going to see him, i told him i would call him when i got back, i think him not knowing how i was gave him a fright and made him decide to try again, he contacted me at the end of the week and said he wanted to see tierney, i told him i would drop her off at his mum's as i didn't want to see him, he insisted on coming round to see her, he told me i was right and we had too much to throw away.

I know this is a long winded story, but maybe all you need is a bit of space to sort yourself out, maybe a week or 2 of you not seeing each other at all would do both of you a lot of good. Let me know how you are.

Pauline.

[cocosmumNco]

aww hun glad things worked out well ty for sharing it with me. think i have alot to think about.