how much do u hate ttc

cocosmumNco · #1 July 4th, 2005, 06:45 AM

i really hate ttc at mo. i've had enough of it really thought i'd be pg by now. starting to think it will never happen even looked into adoption. maybe if i'm still not pg by xmas i might put in a application.

Pollyf · #2 July 4th, 2005, 07:06 AM

Hi Shell, ttc is a rollercoaster, try not to get too p'd off with it, try also remember sex is great exercise, remember all the calories we are burning up when it's mission time.

seriously though, it is hard, sometimes, you feel it would be less hassle and you would be happier just quitting, i've not felt like that for a couple of months, but i honestly know if i don't fall by the time i get back from my hols, i will be devastated, especially as my best friend is now due her 2nd baby in exactly 24 days, and as soon as i hold that baby i just know i'll go home upset.

Good luck honey and you never know, this could be your month.

Pauline.

sylph21 · #3 July 4th, 2005, 07:51 AM

There are some times I really hate TTC. But, I just try to remain positive about the whole thing. I just can't lose my faith and my hopes. If I do, I will never get anyplace with it...

mrsblessing · #4 July 4th, 2005, 02:55 PM

hello everyone!! I'm really starting to get sick of ttc too. I did some research on adoption a few weeks ago. In the US the average adoption costs 24,000.00. That isn't even including the cost of raising the baby, and the birth mother still has the right to change her mind for forty eight hours after the baby is born. So your out a great deal of money plus there would be nothing to show for it!! I can't wait until I go to the Dr.
Melinda

cocosmumNco · #5 July 4th, 2005, 11:37 PM

thats crazy u have to pay for adpotion its not fair. i'm so glad we don't have to here

Cali*Luvin · #6 July 5th, 2005, 10:13 AM

I am also fed up with ttc i am beginning to think it will never happen i have spoken to dh about adoption but his response was oh you dont want to think of that right now and plus its also expensive. Arghhh i feel like screaming at him i said to him well i have to think of my options and i said right now we havent been able to get pg and if we cant then i want to adopt but if he says its expensive not sure what we will do then.