So Sad

mrsblessing · #1 July 9th, 2005, 09:26 AM

Hello everyone! I hope all is well. I'm not so good. I get to go to the dr. in a week or so, but I was upset to learn that I won't be able to resume ttc until November. I had to get a vaccanation for work, and if I were to get pg over the next three months my risk of m/c is fifty percent.

After everything I've been through I would be crushed to get pg only to lose it. So my plan is to join weight watchers and lose some weight. I'm pretty sure that is a big part of my problem in the first place. Well, I'm sorry this is so long, but I had to share this with someone I knew would understand. I hope by the time I get back none of you regulars are here, bfp's all around!! Good luck everyone, and God bless!!!

Melinda

Pollyf · #2 July 9th, 2005, 11:25 AM

Hi Melinda,

I'm really sorry to hear that honey, but as you say it is for the best, hopefully taking the conscious break of ttc will be good for you and you will be so relaxed about everything that when you start ttc again you will get a bfp very very quickly. Just because your not ttc, doesn't mean you can't stay in touch, let us all know how you are, and how you get on at the doctors.

Take care honey.

Pauline. xxx

cocosmumNco · #3 July 9th, 2005, 12:23 PM

aww hun i'm so sorry i know it will be hard on u. but like u say its best i hope when u return to ttc u get your bfp real soon.
we will miss u hun.
good luck in everything u do
michelle

sandycheeks · #4 July 9th, 2005, 12:49 PM

I dont blame you for waiting if I had a 50 % m/c rate I would wait also. A Miscarriage is one of the worse things a woman can go through. I think your making the right decision.

Blue Eyes 409 · #5 July 9th, 2005, 02:50 PM

I am so sorry that you have to wait but Iknow that you are doing thr right thing. I would not get prego if I had a 50% chance of losing it!

Well I hope that you stay with us!!!

ayme · #6 July 9th, 2005, 08:52 PM

HI...I just joined here tonight. I wanted to mention to you to be sure to post over on the WW message boards. It is a great group over there. My name over there is aimeebelle, if you ever want to post to me!! Good Luck.

Ayme