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Nothing you really can do but wait and be positive. I went through the same thing and now I am just really calm about it all. I guess the fact that I already have a son helps me because at least I know that I can get pregnant. Why on earth I am not getting pregnant right now is a mistery but hey, what can you do. Just try to enjoy life right now and focus on the good things. I know it gets hard but trust me, when you get the little bundle of joy your life will be filled with broken sleep, extra baby weight on your bottom, packin diaper bags, bottles, car seat and stroller. Lol, it's all worth it but it is a big step from what you have going on now. Try to enjoy the quiet time you and dh have right now and make the baby making process as fun as possible because it WILL happen. My dh asked me at what time or age would I want to stop trying and I told him never so he said "Ok then, just relax. Because if we never stop trying then you know it is going to happen for us eventually." He is right. It may not be happening when I want it to but it is going to happen. So I try to look at it that way and just wait for that magical day when I get a BFP! We all will get it. Patience is what we are really fighting. Who really has any? Not many of us. Especially when it's something you really want. But just the thought of being pregnant makes me smile and I feel even more determined to keep trying and having faith. Don't go crazy just yet, lol.
I understand how you feel, we all do. It's so hard sometimes. But, you just gotta keep trying! I know for me personally, I had to take a break for a few months a while back. I was just getting too obsessed with everything getting a BFN each month was becoming too much. Maybe you should do that?
I agree. You can't beat yourself up over it hun. If you do, it seems to become a daily chore/routine and you can't be happy that way. And now I am goin to sound like a big kid....Everytime I get a little discouraged I think of the movie finding nemo, Dory, the tang fish, her motto is "just keep swimming" I think, as childish as it is, it's a good motto to live by =) Relax, have fun. I even had my doctor tell me this last time I went to see him. Like the other ladies said, it WILL happen, just when the timing is perfect and you least expect it.
Tabitha & Ryan; Married on Saturday, April 17, 2004 -TTC #1 for 7.5 years. Missing our Angels...
Dx with PCOS at age 14.
Miscarriage in June 2006
2 cycles of Clomid 50mg
1 cycle of Clomid 100mg resulting in miscarriage
Dx with Adenomyosis on 1/28/10
Clomid 150mg 4/30(day 3) - 5/4(day 5) Ultrasound on May 10th.
5/10 - Ultrasound showed 2 perfect follies! (15mm&17mm) Ovulation predicted within 6 days! Progesterone check ordered for 5/20.
5/27 - New round of Clomid started, no ultrasound this cycle, 2 more cycles planned on our own. If no bfp, onto next step!
6/27 - Round 3 Clomid 150mg started.
7/25 - AF Showed, starting final round of Clomid 150mg on CD3
8/21- AF Showed, In the process of finding a new RE
*Waiting to see our new RE