[cocosmumNco]

with ttc that is pauls decided again he doesn't want anymore kids and i can't fight anymore its getting me know where. i'm hoping if i leave it long enough he will decide on his own he wants kids but i doubt it. this is killing me its the hardest thing i've ever had to do. its breaking my heart.
if u don't mind can i pls stay awhile i want to see u all get your bfp atleast ifd i can help u lot the past year won't of been for nothing.

[maof2]

I'm so sorry that DH/SO has decided to call it quits. I don't know what I would do if DH said the same thing. Of course we would love for you to stick around. I hope you both can work this out and decide to continue ttc.

[Katlynsmommy]

i am so sorry hon! maybe he will come around,my dh does the same thing when he gets upset or mad.so maybe this will pass?

[sylph21]

Michelle,

I'm so sorry Paul is putting you through this again. Hopefully things will change. Please don't leave us!!!



Taylor

[Cali*Luvin]

I am so sorry michelle, i hope your dh changes his mind . I hope everything works out for you and please stick around we need you here. I am thinking about you, i am here if you want to talk ever.

[swatmommy]

Hi Michelle.

I hope you do stick around. I hope that Paul changes his mind, or maybe he'll slip up? Just keep at him!

I'm sorry that he's making things so hard for you.

Tracy

[mrsblessing]

Michelle- I'm so sorry to hear dh is wanting to stop ttc. Just keep a positive attitude, and hopefully he will change his mind soon.
Melinda

[Blue Eyes 409]

Michelle!! I just saw this! I hope that things work out and that you can change his mind about TTC. When DH and I first got married he was not ready to TTC but he also told me that if I "accidently " got a BFP that he would be thrilled! So I was "accidently" TTC for several months before he got on the same page I was. I really hope that he changes his mind!!!!

[bookwormmommy]

Good luck and I hope he comes around.

[tearsofhope]

I am sorry about the pain and heartache you are feeling right now. I wish there was something I could do to help you, but I can only offer you my support.

Maybe your dh will change his mind. Give him some time.

[Pollyf]

Shell,
Sorry i've not been on the boards for a few days, things have been hectic here, i'm so sorry Paul has changed his mind, i'm praying he does change his mind again, you know where i am if you need me.

Pauline.

[seswa]

i just joined today, but what you wrote really hit home. DH and i have been TTC for a little over 3 yrs and its been really hard for me this last year. About 5 mos ago we received really, really bad news (DH needs back surgery and they wont do it, long complicated story) and so he went into this really bad depression. no BD and no more TTC. he told me that he would understand if i wanted to leave him
we took a small break, relaxed, spent some extra time with each other going out and having a little fun, and now we are back on track. health problems aside, this month is looking to be a really good month. we BD on the right days, i o'ed on the right day, so now i just have to test.
you never know what DH is thinking about and they could be just as scared as we are.
lots of luck to you and heres hoping you and DH will be able to get back to TTC.

[cocosmumNco]

good luck hun hope this is your month