August 1st, 2005, 10:43 AM
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lol ok i'm picking your brain
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August 1st, 2005, 02:05 PM
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well usually when he says he doesnt' want another baby,he is in a bad mood and it changes with in a day or 2 so either way we still end up TTC lol
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August 2nd, 2005, 07:12 AM
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Well when we got married I told DH that I wanted a baby and he told me he wanted to wait a few months so I ask him how would you feel if I"accidently" got a BFP and he told me that he would be thrilled ..... enought said I never went on BC and in March he decided to start TTC so I have beenTTC for 11 Cycles and DH thinks that this is our 6th cycle .....oops
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August 2nd, 2005, 08:23 AM
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In your situation, Michelle, I'd probably stay off the bc. It's not like you're trying to trap him or anything, as you already have a child together. If Paul is that against ttc, let him have the responsibility of bc. I think he might be using this as a power thing... He can see how desparately you want this.
Just my humble opinion,
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August 3rd, 2005, 02:41 AM
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Hi Shell,
You know my thoughts on the subject, also i think they change their minds when things are not going as they think they should, Gordon had told me a while ago he wasn't sure if he wanted another baby, and then when he had a really good talk with me, admitted it's because things were not happening. Good luck but i'm pretty sure things are going to work out for you.
Pauline. xxx
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August 3rd, 2005, 06:20 PM
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My dh has been very supportive through our ordeal. I ahd even mentioned just giving up, and he said no we would keep on tryong until we got it. Sooooo sweet.
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August 4th, 2005, 01:32 PM
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I said I'd wait and hope he changes his mind, but that wouldn't be before I kicked him in the nuts!  That would make me so mad and hurt. LOL
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August 4th, 2005, 05:22 PM
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I never even thought about this one - I guess I'd probably feel like I got ripped off. That was part of the agreement when he asked me to marry him - BEFORE I was willing to say yes - I stopped & asked about the issue of children, because it means the world to me.
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August 26th, 2005, 11:27 AM
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My hsuband did that to me before. i was very hurt. He has 2 children by his ex-wife that I am raising because she left them when the youngest one was 2 months old. I was very upset with him and I told him when we got together taht I wanted two kids of my own so that means taht we will have four children. He agreed that it would be ok with him. It hurt me for a long time that he was not ready yet. At first I was not ready either because when I moved in the baby was 2 1/2 months old. I knew my husband a long time befroe we started dating. i knew him for about 2 years. But anyway i was nto ready at first because his baby was sooo young but, even after I was ready he wanted to wait. I did not really let him know that i was upset for a long time I tried to be patient. Then oneday i broke down and told him that I could nto take anymore I was hurt so bad. I told him that it was not fair to me that we could not try to have one because he had two kids by someone else. i had never had any childre(still haven't) and I just creid until he felt sorry for me and decided that he wanted to have another one too.
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August 27th, 2005, 03:20 AM
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I voted for i hope he changes his mind.
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August 27th, 2005, 03:55 AM
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oh hun did i not tell u. he changed his mined this is a old post hes ttc with me to now
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