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I am completely devastated and heartbroken.
DB and i have broke up today.
He admitted that he does want to be with me, but he does not want IVF this yr and maybe not next.
Infact he said he does not care at all, if we ever have a child.
After 3yrs ttc and dreaming of my own family and how happy we would be, this has broken me.
I am going to lose the man i love, my home as i cannot afford to keep the flat alone, my chance
of being a mum and also all you girls and JM.
I am leaving JM,
I have no place here anymore.
I will miss all of you wonderful ladies, so,so much and it breaks my heart to leave you all.
JM has been my 'oasis' for so long now and i have loved being here.
It is the place i felt most at home with my problems and struggles and i have loved being co host here.
I am so sorry i am leaving you. I cannot stop crying and cannot even look at my blinkies without
being so utterly sad. Everything i have wanted has gone and i don't see any point in this life anymore.
I have NOTHING anymore. completly nothing.
I wish all of you ladies, every luck in your journey .
I am too upset to post anymore. I want you ALL to get those babies and be Mothers.
Thank you for allowing me to really feel 'part' of things for the 1st time in my life.
God bless you all and Goodbye.
Waiting for god to bless me with my 1st child when the time is right.
Oh Sarah. I am so sorry sweetie. Big to you. I hate the fact that you feel you need to leave us but I do understand. Maybe after some time you will come back to chat or just say hi.
I don't know all the right words to say but just know I am hear if you need to talk.
Sarah, oh no, I'm so sorry it has come to this. I knew you said you were having problems, but can you guys try counseling or will he not go for that? I don't know how old you guys are, but is he having some sort of midlife crisis? I am so sorry to hear this. You've been there for all of us all along. I was so rooting for you to get that BFP. If you dream of being a mother, please don't give that up, you may just have to get there a different way. Let us know if we can do anything for you.
Thank you to *Kiliki* for creating the perfect siggy!
"Victory is sweetest when you have known defeat" ~Malcolm Forbes
IUI #1 - Nov 07 = BFN, IUI #2 - Dec 07 = BFN
IVF #1 - Apr 08 = BFN
IVF #2 - Nov 18
Dec 2 - Beta 1: 198!! Dec 4 - Beta 2: 660!!
Dec 15 - 1st U/S - We're having twins!!!
Dec 23 - 2nd U/S - Surprise it's triplets!!!