[cocosmumNco]

as u know i'm suupose to be satopping ttc and adopting yes i want to adopt but i so want to be pg just seen another friend is pg she has a 2 year old and hasn't been trying long. i want to scream why not me. i don't want to give up but i'm not getting anywhere pls help. i feel so upset might be to do with this is my last day of this cycle last day of ttc i have to make a decsion today.

[Cali*Luvin]

Hi michelle,

i am not sure what to say but i am sorry you are having a bad time. All i can say is follow what your heart is saying. I am sure that dh will come round to the idea of having another child. Men can be such pain at times, but usually if you leave the subject alone for awhile they usually come round. What ever you decide remember that you have friends here on JM and will support you with what ever decision you decide to make. I hope you stay around here. I am here if you want to talk. I am thinking of you.

[sylph21]

Michelle,

I agree with Amanda. Follow your heart!!! Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Love,

Taylor

[swatmommy]

Yes, follow your heart. I hate that jealous feeling I get- then I feel guilty cause I should be happy for my friends. It's tough, and you've got it extra hard cause dp isn't 100% willing.

Last day of your cycle? Has af shown up? She got me today, so I'll do my best to keep her away from you. I know you said you don't think you have a chance, but hey... I can't hear you, lol!!

Sorry you're having a rough time. Maybe I'll catch you on msn this weekend and you can rant at me.

(((HUGS)))

Tracy
CD 1 ((((Me)))), lol

[mrsblessing]

Michelle, I'm sorry that you are going throgh such a tough tim e. Just be sure that whatever decision you make is what is best for everyone involved. Meaning, has your dh thought about how dd would feel if you adopt, and would dh feel regret later about not ttc a little longer. There are so many things to consider before you can make a decision like that. Just remember we are all here for you. No matter what. I hope things become easier for you hun.
Melinda

[cocosmumNco]

ty all af due today

[Pollyf]

Hi Shell,

Honey you need loads of

I know exactly what your saying and i agree with all the girls above, follow your heart but i know deep down your heart wants your own little baby. I'm sorry if i'm speaking out of turn and i know its absolutely wonderful and amazing to adopt, and i think thats an excellent idea if you have really decided not to ttc but i don't know that you have. You can't turn off all the maternal feelings of wanting to be pg overnight, it takes time and men don't realise that. I think personally you shouldn't mention anything to Paul for the moment, don't rush into things. Does Paul know how upsetting this is for you, men have a tendancy to think we are upset because our hormones are all over the place, they don't realise we can't control how we feel or hide how we feel just because they do.

I'm sorry ive not been much help and i really wish i could be there for you to give you a proper hug and shake some sense into Paul to make him see how much this is all affecting you. I really hope af stays away from you because right now you need something other than her showing her ugly face. I'm thinking of you.
Pauline. xxxx