[austybugsmomma]

Me & DH have been ttc for almost 8 months now......and a couple of months ago one of my friends found out she is "accidently" pregnant.......her and her DH were very upset.................her DH even mentioned abortion................but they decided to keep the baby.................so here is my problem she has constantly complained about EVERYTHING......................her belly growing.....her appointments........ her having to pee.......EVERYTHING........and finally the other day during one of her " complaining spells" I snapped.............I started crying and asking her why she always has to complain to me when she knows how bad I wnat another baby...................and she does'nt even realize how lucky she is.....................I am still very upset over this and I am almost sure our relationship is ruined for good...........................

[jdecke04]

I hope your relationship with her is not ruined. Maybe you gave her a wake up call to how lucky she really is. I know how hard it is to see friends and family getting pregnant very easily or by mistake and it hurts us when we have been trying for so long and have not been able to get preggo. Those who do get preggo need to be happy for themselves. They need to realize how lucky they are to be bringing another person into this world.

I would have probably snapped myself and like I said maybe she needed a wake up call.

I wish you the best of luck and hope you get your BFP soon!

Jena