[cocosmumNco]

just found out my sister in law is pg again shes already got 2 under 2 and she can't handle them when i found out i cried it seems so unfair. i was trying when she found out she was pg with her last one now that ones nearly a year old and shes pg again and it feels like i'll still be ttc when she has this one to.
sorry i know i should be happy for her but i'm finding this really hard. its nice that paul knows i'm upset and cares but he doesn't understand like u guys do

[Katlynsmommy]

ya know what hon,i am the same way when my sil got pg i was sooo angry b/c we have been ttc for over a year and she pops a few pills(drugs aka narcotics) and gets prg!it hurts i cried for days.now they are talkin bout havin another one.and it break my heart b/c she doesn't even care for this one!! i know how ya feel honey!
hugs to you

[Pollyf]

Hi Shell,

Sorry to hear your feeling down, its awful honey when people seem to fall pg without even trying and we are still waiting, don't worry about sounding like a bad person though because your not, your only someone with natural maternal feelings like us all, it will happen soon to you too shell, remember we're moving boards together, it'll happen for us sooner that we think.

Talk to you soon.

Pauline xxxx

[swatmommy]

Hey Michelle,

2 under 2! And pg again? Well, there's her punishment, lol!!

Seriously though, we all know how you feel. It's mighty irritating. You just have to believe it will happen, otherwise it gets too much to bear.

Really, I just wanted to say "hi" and "hang in there".

Tracy

[hopeful one]

I don't think you need to apologize. I think we all know exactly what you are feeling. That is such a horrible feeling to find out that someone is expecting--esp. in circumstances like that. Just know that you can come here to vent. Men don't always understand how incredibly difficult it is to hear about someone else's pregnancy when you are so ready! Hang in there and take care of yourself!

[Cali*Luvin]

You dont need to apoligize michelle. Iam sorry to hear your feeling down , we all have emotions when we are tccing especially when friends, or family members are pg before us but , don't worry about sounding like a bad person though because your not, remember we are al here for you. And we will all graduate from this board and move onto the pg board.
Thinking of you.

[cocosmumNco]

awww ty u all u r great u guys keep me sane your the best group of friends a girl could ask for.

[MrsFuhrman05]

Shell,

I can totally understand how you feel. I have a bestfriend who seems to always be pregnant everytime i turn around and then wonder why i'm the only one not getting pregnant. I'm military and i mean i go to work everyday and see nothing but pregnant women in their pretty maternity uniforms...it hurts and i know exactly how you feel i've been there and feel that way every single day. Cheer up mama... you'll get that BFP soon...i'll keep you in my prayers...

Shaye

[want_to_be_mommy]

Hi Hun! I know how you feel and all I can say is hang in there. I have been through it too. The mother to my two step-children has done it to me. We used to be best friends until I found out that she and my ex-husband were sleeping together. But any way. She had a two year old and she got pregnant after only trying for about a month and i was trying at that time and it hurt me soo bad. And then my husbands aunt got pregnant right about the same time. it hurt me soo bad. Well she had the baby and he was born with a heart condition and a cleft palate. So I moved in with her to help her with the kids and because it helped me being able to take care of the baby (LOL). The baby didn't come home until he was 3 weeks old. I moved back home and her and my husband at that time ran off together when the baby was just 2 months old. she left them on January the 3rd. she came back for one night and left them again. By that time I was living about 1 1/2 hours away from here. Well then me and the childrens father started talking and i decided to move in with him to only help him with hte children because he was scared and he didnt know everything about the baby. i had taken care of him since he came home. But anyway. She wound up pregnant about 2 1/2 months after she left these kids not once but twice. I was very hurt. Me and the childrens dad got married last year on Spetember 12th and we have been trying to have a baby. She had her baby one year after she left these kids. She had the baby on January 3rd. Now she has not seen these kids for 4 months. So we have all been to where you are right now and it hurts very bad. But hte best thing to do is pray and try not to be jealous so that God can bless you with a miracle. and if you have doubts then God can not move for you. The bible says that you are snared by the words of your mouth. My pastor gets on to us if we speak doubt she says "You are gonna speak it into being" so I am thinking positive and I am believeing that I am pg. Its kind of hard to not doubt at times but you have to keep your head high. I am believing it so much tht I have already started getting maternity clothes and I have a bassinett and a playpen and I am filling th playpen up with baby things. I have boy and girl clothes, a diaper bag and baby toys and i even have a crib set. So just keep your head high and keep believing tht your miracle is on its way.

Lots of

[sylph21]

Aww Michelle. Don't apologize. There is no need for it. We all understand what you are dealing with. And, we are all here when you need to talk. I'm sorry you are going through this. I'm here when you need me.

Lotsa love,

Taylor

[Blue Eyes 409]

I am so sorry. I know how hard it is some peopel don't need to have kids and they keep having them. The ones of us that want them and will be great parents have a hard time in TTC it is just not fair.