I always feel weird posting here because I don't know if I truly belong. I have been TTC since February, so that makes it 7 months total (starting my eighth in September) . February I was trying the natural way (kinda desperate - one night stand type of thing and hated myself afterwards). March I didn't attempt but starting in April I started my artificial inseminations (IUI with donor sperm). So counting from March that makes September starting the beginning of my sixth month. But I have only been inseminated 3 times because my cycles are so long - the waiting is horrible each month (I did conceive last cycle but m/c'd really early on and have to wait until next month to start trying again). So counting actual cycles that I have been trying that only makes 4. So do I count cycles or months to know if I belong here? Yes, I know, I am probably way over analyzing.