I do understand, completley. Ive only been trying to conceive for a year, but my regular board is ttc, and trust me there are HEAPS of us not getting their bfps! (ME ME ME!!) Its very hard, i know, and i am always so happy but i feel really selfish because then i get sad for all of us who are still trying

but some of those girls getting their bfp's have been trying for years and years and totally deserve it, dont worry we will be getting ours soon, i just know it