I know what most of you are going through and feeling. We were TTC for almost 2 yrs before I got my BFP just about a week ago. I want you all to know that it will happen, keep your head high and dont give up. I was about to give up a couple cycles ago when I got my 2nd chemical pregnancy, but I told myself that I want this and I wont give up until I do. Its very hard to stay strong at times, especially when ppl around you are getting pg or ppl on the TTC board are getting them. I know that the ones who had an oops or were not ttc that long bothered me the most, but remember once you see your BFP your going to cherish it more then the girls who got pg by their men looking at them, only because you have been ttc for long. You know what its like to really want something and see everyone else get it. I was one who was TTC for 20 mos before seeing my BFP, that was 2 chemicals and a miscarriage thrown in there as well. Please ladies dont give up, and just because I am pg now doesnt mean I dont know how your feeling. In fact it still bothers me when I see ladies who just had a kid or who were not TTC for long get theirs because I know so many of you have been TTC for so long and have been let down for so long. I told myself that I write what my life is going to be like, my life isnt set in stone it can change any time and I had to remember that when I was TTC. Sending you LOTS OF LUCK AND BABY DUST LADIES!

[Bebo]

Magan thanks so much for writing this

I've admired and lurked you from afar and truly appreciate your heart.

So very sorry for your losses and pray that you are blessed with a healthy pregnancy and beyond.

Blessings to you.

Thank you so much, I just read your post on my BFP post. I want you to keep your head high and dont give up! I hope yours is coming very soon!

Also my DH has low sperm count as well so the odds were against us with this baby.

[lisamcole]

Thank you Magan!!!

[jdecke04]

Thanks Magan! I admire your words of wisdom. I wish you a happy and healthy nine months!

Jena