[LadyBelle]

My dh thinks I am "using" him for my fertile window & it is no longer fun for him that week.I am working on that this month.

[jdecke04]

Yes I agree....my DH hates that week since there is no spontanaity (sp) that week in our dtd's....its all about trying to make a baby. Taking this past month off before we start IVF has really helped I think.

[Mommy2oneDiva]

IDK IF YOU AND DH ARE INTO THESE KINDA THINGS BUT MAYBE GIVE EACH OTHER AN OIL MESSAGE TO GET THE MOOD GOING OR DRESS UP IN SOMETHING SEXY FOR HIM YOU KNOW...SORRY IF YA'LL ARE NOT INTO THAT IM JUST TRYING TO HELP A BIT

[Peytonsmommy]

A couple months ago I had I really hard time getting my SO to DTD but this month he surprised me and said " You should be ovulating soon, let's make a baby". I was so shocked and asked him how he knew I was O'ing soon and he told me that he figured it out because I always want to DTD 13-15 days after AF shows. It was so cute and almost made me cry because I know that he is completely onboard now, which I was questioning before.

[CandiceW]

My dh says I am always in control over the days we bd/dtd and pouts a little. He does enjoy it though but I think sometimes he feels used.

[Jeb-O]

Honestly, it got to a point where any time we dtd it wasn't that fun. Last cycle, technically this cycle, (I'm on CD66) was blah for us... we're determined not to let that happen again.