[ashleighgurl]

I'm having a bad day .. Anyone with me? It's been over 10 months of trying for our first child, and I'm getting really hopeless. Well, I think I'm beyond hopeless. I feel like it's never going to happen. Now, I'm even more stressed because I'm moving from Michigan to Arizona on Sunday - less than a week! Why is it taking us so long to have a child? My step-sister wasn't even trying to get pregnant, then the condom broke one time and now she has a beautiful daughter! Why couldn't it be so easy for us? I'm sorry if this sounds like I'm complaining - I just wanted to vent to some ladies who know where I'm coming from! Thanks for listening!

[LindsLuvsSi]

I know were you're coming from......'m in the same boat...we're on cycle #11, but have been have unprotected sex for over a year, so who knows?!? I'm scared to see a RE....I know how you feel, i feel and wonder the same things all the time!!! I wish it were that easy...but unforuntately it's not. You'r enot complaining no worries...it's just hard to keep trying for something you want so much iwth no success....believe i feel your pain!!!! good lcuk!! hope you feel better!!! (have you seen a RE or are you going too?)

[LaniR304]

Good luck with your move. Unfortunately you are missing the 80 degree weather--supposed to cool down this weekend.

We are in our 9th month of TTC. I remember when we first started TTC, I figured that I would be having a baby by the end of this year.
I realized early on that I didn't O on my own, and even on meds I am still having issues with O'ing, but I think what is more frustrating is the long cycles because I just can't wait for AF to come so I can try again.

Someone I work with got pregnant--she hadn't had AF for more than a year--the doctors told her that her hormone levels were abnormal so she couldn't get pregnant until that was corrected. At one point she didn't feel well and her husband suggested she take a HPT. He bought her one, and it sat on the counter for a week before she finally used it--it was obviously a BFP. I am happy for her, but it doesn't always seem fair that some people have to try so hard.

[Mum2three]

Its only normal to feel that way. I to was in the same boat as you. i was trying for over 2 years and went through 2 stillbirths. then i was waiting for over 6 months after my last baby to try again. and still nothing. I had doughts so did DH. he thought there was something wrong with him. and i was trying to hold that onto my shoulders and my pain as well. But Time is your best friend. it will happen when God feels its time. sometimes we have to walk through all of this to make us stronger. Patiences is the best key. Just keep going at it, and soon you will be blaring that BFP! Good luck to u all and i know it will happen!!!