Thanks Leslie. I cant say I chose them. I beleive God puts people together for a reason. The first couple,she had children from a former marriage 10 yrs prior, and when her and her new DH tried to conceive children her body was a no go, then the doctors messed up her tubes, and FORGOT to reconnect them after dosing her with tons of fertility drugs, then she tried adoption, but she kept talking the mothers into keeping their babies, which I thought was sad for her but a wonderful thing to do. So she found me and we talked and hit it off and now they have one boy and one girl,ages 2 and 3! The second couple lives in Canada and the mother had never had children, she was diagnosed with cancer of the uterus,and such so they gave her a full hysterectomy at age of 26, not hard for me to even think twice to help that wonderful couple. They now have a boy/girl twins at ages 9 months exactly today!!! So that is it! Now I hope me and DH may have the same mercy from God. I am sure it will happen, in Gods time