[mom 2 haley & tyler]

Well, I was 2 days late. I took tests and I was still hopeful though. Then yesterday comes full force So, of course I cried. My dh said that he doesn't understand why I get upset every month. He told me to go down the street and find someone who can get me pregnant since that's all I care about. WTH? I have NEVER said that. We don't even know if there is a problem. He says it will happen if and when it's meant to be. I wish I felt like that. I hate being obsessed with all this #####. To top it all off, it's been 7 months today that I lost my baby! This sucks!!! So, I have one more shot to have a 2008 baby. I will OPK, temp, drink lots of water, green tea, whatever it takes this month. If I get pg, I will be due Christmas day. (which I didn't really want, but at this point I'll take what I can get) If it doesn't happen, then I give up. No more opk, temp, nothing. I'll just go with the flow, so to speak. So, please send tons of sticky dust. I send tons to all you ladies!!! Lets get us those Dec babies

[BabyBird]

I am sorry your DH feels that way. Good luck to you this cycle...I am hoping for a little Christmas baby too! I also never thought I would want a baby due around Christmas and even thought of not TTC this cycle because of it...well only for a minute! Then we decided that if we were to have a sticky bean that it would be the best Christmas present ever!

[Brenda04]

I hope this cycle is for you, I'm sorry your DH is feeling that way I'm sending lots of baby dust your way and you'll be in my T&P

[xanada101]

I'm so sorry the witch showed for you!!! I'm even more sorry that your DH lashed out when you needed support the most. I'm alsmost wondering if he feels like a failure himself and that is why he said the things he did. Maybe he thinks you blame him, which I am sure is not the case, but maybe he secretly is afraid that it is him. Just a guess. I am going to send you my best babydust! I want to see you get your BFP!

[downunderchick]

sending you hugs. Its so frustrating not being able to express feelings properly to the only person who can share the experience with you. thats where JM comes in handy for me. DF is very good but I try not to make it a huge issue IYKWIM, although we both know we need to go and see someone soon and we have spoke about it.
Keep your chin up and keep trying!!!

[~April04~]

I'm sorry the witch showed.. I hope ya'll get your BFP this month.

[jeanbean]

I'm sorry the stupid witch showed.....it can get so frustrating. I've tried explaining to DH that every month is like a roller coaster ride for me. All the ups and downs can really get to a person. But, some how I've managed to keep on plugging away. I just keep thinking about holding our baby someday, then it becomes worth it. Good Luck!! I hope you get a BFP soon!

[ShannonMVT]

I'm so sorry hun. I know it hurts when you have gotten your hopes up (like when AF is late) and you find out you aren't pregnant.

My Dh doesn't "get it" either and asks like it is not a huge deal if we never have kids and that it will happen when it happens. It drives me nuts. It really sounds like maybe your Dh lashed out and made that comment because he is feeling badly that you aren't pregnant and feels that it could be his fault. It can be kind of macho man thing to be able to "knock you up", so maybe this is a blow to his ego.

I hope you get your Christmas baby!!!

[cazza]

im sorry he doesnt feel the same as you. lots of dust coming everyones way

[Mum2three]

Aww Sweetie!! Sometimes Men really want to be pregnant to, and it upsets them cause their little spermies dont want to do the job. They feel like its their fault. Be patient and talk to him about it.

I hope you all get BFP!!!!