[Carmela]

My husband LOVES to talk. He talks about everything. Apparently in conversation Friday he told his boss that we might end up having twins. Of course his boss then asked if I was pregnant. Chris answered "No, but she is about to start taking drugs that sometimes results is twins." He doesn't know why he told him, "it just came up."

He knows I don't like talking about us TTC with people that actually know us. (I also got ill with him when he was talking to my mom about it a few months ago.) He also knows I don't want to tell a bunch of people when we do actually get pregnant. After he told me the above story I asked him if he was just going to tell everyone when ever we do get pregnant. He got really serious and promised he wouldn't tell people because he knows how badly I don't want everyone knowing that we were pregnant if I have a miscarriage. So he won't tell anyone other than the few we decided on until I say I am ready. So at least I know I have that, we never break promises to each other.

Well that is it, I just wanted to vent a little. Does anyone else have a SO that loves to talk to just about anybody about everything?

[xanada101]

Carmela, I am so sorry! It is frusturating! My DH does the same thing! I ask/tell him not to say anything... for one reason or another (like a surprise).... and he does anyways. It is so infuriating! We had a retirement party for his mother at the end of Feb... and he told his entire family that we were TTC. I was appalled. I was ready for the bombardment of questions. Luckily they were very respectful.

[Mum2three]

Carmela im sorry he did that. Mean old man..LOL.

My hubby likes to do that all the time! With this pregnancy he couldnt wait to tell everyone that he was going to be a father. After i told him no dont say anything, you never know whats in the cards. But his mouth was hot and he let it all out. I was MAD!

Men never think with the proper head half the time..LOL..thats men for you...

[Carmela]

Honestly my dad is the same way. I soooo married my father. When Chris proposed to me (at the time I was living in Alabama and he was in Indiana) he worked with my mom and my sister so set up the surprise. They told my dad on the way there so there was no possibility for him to "accidentally" tell me.

[Brenda04]

I'm sorry girl but all guys are the same although my DH has not said nothing to anyone at least that's what I think

[Celry]

My hubby loves to talk about too much stuff too. I don't think he'd bring up TTC with other people if I didn't bring it up first. I would be very frustrated if he did and he wasn't talking to someone I wanted to know. If it were his boss I'd be upset. A lot of our friends know we're ttc, but most of them are trying too with no success, so it's helped all of us to talk.

[jeanbean]

All men must be alike.....I know it took many conversations with mine for him to get it. I don't think they think about what could happen.

DH has told most of the people at work that we are TTC, but I can't really get mad at that because we are in such a small community that most people knew already anyway. He has at least respected my wishes when it comes to telling family....

[cazza]

im sorry he did that. thankfully dh doesnt really discuss our businss with other people

How frustrating! My husband is sort of like that too. A few of his co-workers know about us TTC, but I don't think anyone knows about our struggles and no one in our families know. So he is good about that! I think it is kind of cute that your DH is excited about having children and at the possibility of twins

[downunderchick]

If Steve told anyone Id kill him!!! lol there would be people that I owuld tell and people that I wouldnt, from my experience though, as soon as one person knws, everyone knows so its easier to say nothing. DF mum is pretty chatty and will talk to most people about everything so definatly careful what we say to her.

[Carmela]

He is excited about the possibility of twins because we only want two kids, so if we get twins we are done with all this TTC stuff for good. My doctor told me that she has only had 3 women that she put on clomid end up having twin, and all three were in the same year. Go figure.

[LindsLuvsSi]

Carmela I'm sorry!!

My DH does not like to talk to anyone about anything. He's one of those closed book types.

[tracyanne]

DH works with a lot of women and had told them about us and how we've been trying with no luck! I wish he wouldn't but he has a big mouth!