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May 14th, 2008, 08:26 AM
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I feel like I am in group thearpy Hi! My name is Nikki and I am terrified of being pregnant!!!

I have been so gaurded this whole pregnancy that I have been very disconnect from my ever growing belly. I don't even talk to him...infact I still call him "him" "the baby" sometimes even "it" even though he is SCOTT and has had a name for months now.

Anyways! Something in me just changed last night and I found myself enjoying my baby boy. I was sitting on the couch watching TV with DH and Scott was being a busy kid and my belly was jumping and I could see him rolling around. So I just sat there and watched him. I even called DH over! I found my self smiling and laughing and even talking to Scott!

This was my first real bonding moment with my son. It was very cool. I am kinda sad that it took me 28 weeks to get to this point but I am glad I am here.

Just wanted to share with you ladies

(for those of you who have posted about not feeling connect with your baby yet...learn from me...it will happen in its own time)

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May 14th, 2008, 08:30 AM
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That is wonderful !!!!!
I am so happy you felt it was time to " EXHALE " alittle bit! Its a great feeling isn't it ???

ENJOY your little boy !!

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May 14th, 2008, 08:45 AM
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Thats awesome news!!! It took me a while to get into this pregnancy! but i finally over came it!!

Its a great feeling to know that your little man is in there moving and shaken!!!
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May 14th, 2008, 09:41 AM
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Awww that is such great news!! It is so hard not to be guarded after having a loss....this pg has be so scary for me, even tho I'm not having any problems, so I know what you mean! But I'm so glad you are finally enjoying your little boy!
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May 14th, 2008, 11:15 AM
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i am soooooo happy for you!
keep enjoying!
- maybe you can get out there and but Scott some stuff now.......
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May 14th, 2008, 11:26 AM
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Awe Glad you and Scott finally got your connection going. Now enjoy, he will be here sooner than you know
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May 14th, 2008, 01:36 PM
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It took me a while to really feel connected to Erin, too. And it came and went, as well. So don't be sad if you start feeling guarded again.


I'm glad you got to have that moment!
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May 14th, 2008, 02:00 PM
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Thanks girls I feel like a better mom today!

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- maybe you can get out there and but Scott some stuff now.......[/b]

I know We are going to start our register this weekend...finally! I can't remember if I posted this here or on our DDC but Kaylie is seriously worried that Scott will have to come home from the hospital naked b/c I have not bought him any clothes yet Ahhh...the mind of a 3 year old

Honestly I am going to buy him something soon. It is just with transitioning Kaylie to her big girl room I have no where to put any stuff for Scott yet. We don't have a dresser for Kaylie (it is in the garage as a spider condo right now) so all her clothes are still in the changing table dresser in the baby room.

I need to get my booty in gear! (see that is funny b/c we are doing Scotts room in pirates! Get it...booty! Ok I am done )
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May 14th, 2008, 02:04 PM
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awww, I am so glad you are able to bond now yay!!

and you better get to work girl, he is going to be here before you know it LOL
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May 14th, 2008, 02:07 PM
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I'm happy for you Nikki, keep enjoying it!!!!I love pirates!That's how I want to do Austin's room too!
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May 14th, 2008, 04:13 PM
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Awww yay! im so glad that moment finally came for you.. I understand about being guarded... it took me until about last week to really start getting excited about this...

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May 14th, 2008, 05:53 PM
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I'm happy for you Nikki, keep enjoying it!!!!I love pirates!That's how I want to do Austin's room too![/b]

I got the baby bedding at Babies R Us and it is super cute! But Target also has Pirate stuff right now for a toddler room! Did not know which way you were thinking of going since little Austin is turning into BIG Austin!
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May 14th, 2008, 08:19 PM
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I'm so glad that you got to have that breakthrough
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May 14th, 2008, 10:26 PM
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Hahahaha your pirate booty jokes!

I am glad to hear that you are bonding with him! I still have that problem...and I just yesterday bought a stroller/carseat combo and a swing-huge step and the only things I have bought other than diapers.


Can't wait to see what you get on your shopping trip!

Hugs!
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May 15th, 2008, 06:50 AM
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I am so happy to read your post. I am glad you are connecting to him but even more happy to see you relaxed and enjoying your pg.
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