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May 18th, 2008, 07:25 AM
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Hi ladies! My name is Nikki, and I'm about 5 weeks along with my second pregnancy. My first pregnancy was in fall of 2005, and ended in miscarriage at 12 weeks. Well, I actually found out about 12 weeks at a routine US, but they told me my baby died about 10 weeks. I never had any bleeding or pain. So, here we go again, and I am petrified. I honestly don't know how I could ever survive losing another child. I think if I make it to my second trimester, I will feel so much better. I'm sure you ladies understand all that I'm saying, and it feels good to have a place on JM where others "get me". I'm in the January DDC, my midwife has moved my dates from Jan 9 to January 19. Can't wait to get to know all of you better!
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May 18th, 2008, 09:22 AM
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WELCOME and CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!

I am so sorry for your loss, we do all understand how scary it is to be pregnant again after a loss. It is down right terrifying. this place has helped me sooooooo much, whenever you are freaking out about ANYTHING, even if it sounds silly, post it here and you will feel much better. I have had TONS of freakout moments, and always hesitated posting them, once I did I felt more relieved.

(HUGS) I hope and pray this pregnancy is a sticky one for you!!!
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May 18th, 2008, 09:23 AM
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I'm actually in your DDC as well, but it's nice to see you here too.
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May 18th, 2008, 09:51 AM
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Hi Nikki & welcome to the board !
I am so glad you decided to join us ! I am very sorry for your loss ~HUGS~
And you are right.......we all " get it" here ! It is a stressful time.....I hope you feel right at home with us.

Congratulations & Lots of sticky dust !!!
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May 18th, 2008, 10:13 AM
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Hello and Welcome!!

congrats on your pregnancy!!!!
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May 18th, 2008, 11:02 AM
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Nikki,

Hi and welcome!! Congrats on this pregnancy. I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months ahead of you. Im also in your DDC as well . it is super nice to have this place to be in as well since like you said, we ll get you. Itll be nice to get to know you.
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May 18th, 2008, 12:16 PM
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Hello! I'm Brittanie, and I'm not actually pregnant at the moment, but I thought I'd say hi anyway. My Cora was stillborn at 38w1d on May 2, 2006 and I have since had Erin (June 7, 2007, she's almost 1!!). This board was a lifesaver for me.

I've heard a lot that once you get past your loss point things feel better (which, for me, was giving birth). I hope that is the case for you, and your pregnancy is as happy as possible! Good luck and LOADS of sticky !
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May 18th, 2008, 02:35 PM
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Welcome and Congratulations! Very sorry about your loss, but glad you found us here. I am in the same nervous boat as you are, being in the 1st trimester. I am counting down the days to entering my 2nd trimester.
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May 18th, 2008, 03:34 PM
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Welcome and Congrats!!! So glad to hear that you are having a little one..such a great blessing. Hon, I know that anxity that you are feeling...and although Ive only been a member here a few weeks..I gotta tell you these ladies are so supportive and help you through the rough worries and the doubts. I am due in October..but I usually stay here in the Loss forurm..
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May 18th, 2008, 03:38 PM
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Congrats on your pg, and I am sorry for your loss. I know how stressful it is to be pg after a loss! This board is great...you will just love it here.
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May 18th, 2008, 05:16 PM
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hello! glad to have you hear and congrats about your pregnancy!!! i am sorry that you have had a loss though, and this board is really great for support. i know how you feel about waiting for the second trimester (i miscarried at almost 6 weeks in july 06) and am now pregnant again, only a few weeks away from my third trimester. the first felt like it laster FOREVER, but once i got past those crucial times i felt so much better. welcome to the board!!
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May 18th, 2008, 06:32 PM
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Thanks for all your support ladies! I feel at home here already!
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May 18th, 2008, 06:36 PM
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Welcome and Congrats on your pregnancy.
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May 18th, 2008, 06:37 PM
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Welcome and Congratulations!!!

This is an awesome board. I think you'll find it very helpful.
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