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May 19th, 2008, 12:10 PM
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yes & no.....lol

the closer I get, I think...oh wow, nothing worry about now....YEAH RIGHT.....LOL
then it hits me...all of the "what if's"
but it doesnt last that long...thank Goodness !!

how about you ladies? are you starting to exhale a little bit now???
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May 19th, 2008, 12:16 PM
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I still have a worry here and there but then I go use my doppler and I feel a whole lot better. I started to worry less once I got past the week that I lost Samantha and started the 2nd trimester.
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May 19th, 2008, 12:40 PM
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i'm with you dee!
yes & no- sometimes i can look forward to when baby is home with me and other times I can't shut up the 'what if's' in my head.
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May 19th, 2008, 12:49 PM
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I even went and started Scott's baby register at Babies R Us this weekend. But then all those little "what if's" come creeping in.

Since Scott was such a big suprise after my ectopic (no period between surgery and getting pg without trying) I just keep feeling like I did not work hard enough to be given this little guy. O' I hope to God that I am wrong and he is ment for our arms!
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May 19th, 2008, 02:30 PM
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I relax for a week or so, then freak for a week or so. right now I am in the freaking out phase, LOL, worrying that something will happen. I hope to relax again soon.
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May 19th, 2008, 03:27 PM
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YEAH RIGHT!!!! I wish i was. But im not. One min i can be ok, the next im freaking!!
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May 19th, 2008, 03:33 PM
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I think im with most others. Some days I feel ok then other days I worry myself crazy.
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May 19th, 2008, 04:16 PM
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I dont think I will until I reach like 28 weeks..and know that my baby has a great chance...I have to get past the second trimester before Im gonna feel like this babys safe. I count down those days...and dread 20-28 weeks which is my danger zone uhhg
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May 19th, 2008, 06:42 PM
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I do and then I don't... I do feel safer as far as another miscarriage, but then I always find something to worry about. Right now, it is the previa stuff and when/if and WHERE I am going to have a bleed out.

Then there's the PTL fears...I don't think it ends!

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May 19th, 2008, 07:29 PM
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I think it's way too early for me to relax yet. If all goes well Thursday then maybe I will a little
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May 19th, 2008, 07:37 PM
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I just got more anxious as time went on. I think that's because I just got closer and closer to my loss point the further along I was.


In my first trimester I think I spent more time trying to hold down my food than worrying. lol.
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