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May 30th, 2008, 09:04 PM
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I hate when my symptoms go away. What does that mean? I'm so nervous about every little thing. We've barely told anyone, just my parents and bestfriend.

Please tell me this is normal.
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May 30th, 2008, 09:06 PM
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It's normal and nerve-wracking!
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May 30th, 2008, 09:06 PM
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It is normal!! Mine came and went all the time!! I didnt have many symptoms to begin with except being tired and sore boobs. But my boobs would stop hurting and I would have energy and I would freak, then it would come back again.

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May 30th, 2008, 09:26 PM
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I just feel like bawling

Hubby I know is excited and nervous as any father with more babies coming (well one but you know what I mean)... but he just isn't talking about it, didn't tell his parents when we had the chance. I think I might be reading into things, maybe he didn't want to say something cause his boss was around the corner, maybe he was waiting for a better time... I dunno, but he just doesn't seem to be super excited, not like last time, like with any of our other pregnancies. I think he's scared but it makes me scared. I know I should talk to him but sometimes that doesn't help the issue, just forces it ya know?

And then my symptoms disappearing.. I just feel so broken, and most likely nothing is even wrong!

Well atleast we know I am emotional, and that's a symptom...

:cry :cry :cry
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May 30th, 2008, 10:58 PM
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My ONLY symptom for this pregnancy was sore boobs and then that went away soon after the positive-so I thought for sure it was another m/c....it wasn't. Hang in there I know it's so terrifying!

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May 30th, 2008, 11:19 PM
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I had the same thing happen to me at the beginning. Symptoms would come and go. I can understand where your hubby is coming from but we have to treat each one of these pregnancies as thought they are going to full term.

I know it's hard and I have doubts all the time. I then feel guilty but we just have to take it day by day. Thing is, before you know it, you're out of the first trimester where we try to relax more, hah! I do try to keep myself busy to pass time, easy to do when I have a toddler.

Try not to worry too much hun and know that everything will be great!!!!
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May 30th, 2008, 11:52 PM
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Thanks ladies. I knew this was the place I should be. This is so much tougher, so much more over whelming then I ever thought it would be. I just want to be blindly excited.

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May 31st, 2008, 06:13 AM
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Stephy...

I feel the exact same way. I haven't even been posting much and that is soooo not like me

My symptoms were gone a couple days ago. I thought for sure I was m/c again. Now the sore bbs are back. YAY!

This is one roller coaster I am glad to be on. I don't want to have to get off for the next 36 weeks. So buckle up.... we are riding until the end



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May 31st, 2008, 06:15 AM
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(((HUGS)))

My only symptom with this one was m/s and that did not start until 6w. With DD I was tired all the time...my bb's got big...I was really hungry...etc. Every pregnancy is really different! Hang in there. You are still very early. I am sure your symptoms will kick up.

As for DH not being as excited...mine was the same way. He admitted it was b/c he was scared and was afraid to get his hopes up. As suck as that sounds to hear...I was the same way! The excitement will come.
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May 31st, 2008, 05:00 PM
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Bobbie, I was wondering where you were at. I totally understand though.

I really hope my symptoms hit me full force in a couple of days... I know that sounds silly but this is driving me insane. Today I started not to feel well, but I hadn't eaten for a while... who knows!

Thanks ladies for all your thoughts, and encouraging words.

I know with Curtis I didn't get m/s or anything like that. I just got moments of sickness but never really puked and that didn't happen until later on. Hopefully that's what is happening now!
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May 31st, 2008, 05:15 PM
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its only normal!! mine did that to. and i would start freaking out, and pulling out the sticks to pee on them. to see what color the line was...LOL..

I was strange..lol..

its normal.
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May 31st, 2008, 06:23 PM
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Brandy, I have sticks still coming in the mail from Bobbie (Where ARE THEY?) haha. I will be strange too. I will be using them too I'm sure!
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