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November 25th, 2005, 10:31 PM
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I've made it past the first hurdle if my predictions are correct; the 4w5d mark (where i miscarried before). But I am so, so, so afraid it's happening again. Behind feeling nausous and a little fatigued and sore, I just don't feel very pregnant. Everytime I pass a mirror, I examine my belly for any sign of growth, and when I don't see any, I immediately think my baby is gone, there's no way it could be alive or I would see it, feel it, anything. I know it's way too early to feel it, and it might be too early for any growth to start as far as my stomach goes. I'm still trying to get an appointment at my clinic... and I think until I hear a heartbeat I'm going to keep acting like this. I just wish I could relax... I mean, there's no cramping, no bleeding, no bad signs at all, just good signs. But still, I'm so paranoid and I can't make myself stop... Thanks for reading my rant... just wanted to get it off my chest...
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November 26th, 2005, 08:01 AM
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I know how you feel. I had a M/C at 6 weeks and even now that I am past the 6 week mark and the Dr has told me that everything is looking great I am still scared about it. I am hoping to feel better when I get my ultrasound next week.
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November 26th, 2005, 11:45 AM
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Originally posted by RyMommy@Nov 26 2005, 01:31 AM
I've made it past the first hurdle if my predictions are correct; the 4w5d mark (where i miscarried before).* But I am so, so, so afraid it's happening again.* Behind feeling nausous and a little fatigued and sore, I just don't feel very pregnant.* Everytime I pass a mirror, I examine my belly for any sign of growth, and when I don't see any, I immediately think my baby is gone, there's no way it could be alive or I would see it, feel it, anything.* I know it's way too early to feel it, and it might be too early for any growth to start as far as my stomach goes.* I'm still trying to get an appointment at my clinic... and I think until I hear a heartbeat I'm going to keep acting like this.* I just wish I could relax... I mean, there's no cramping, no bleeding, no bad signs at all, just good signs.* But still, I'm so paranoid and I can't make myself stop...* * Thanks for reading my rant... just wanted to get it off my chest...
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Well i had a M/C at 12 weeks and now i am 8 weeks pregnant. I am going threw the EXACT same thing with you. Everything you said is exactly how i am feeling. This is my first child. So dont worry hunny you arent the only ont thinking like that.

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November 26th, 2005, 01:04 PM
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I'm going through it too! And we're all in the July DDC , right?? We'll have to start our own "Sticky Babies of July 06" forum!!

I'm SOOOO nervous right now. I'm 6 weeks and 2 days and my first baby died at 6 weeks and 4 days and the second one passed at 7 weeks and 4 days. The next few weeks are going to be SO nerve-wracking to me.
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November 27th, 2005, 01:52 PM
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I know exactly how you feel. We miscarried at 10 weeks earlier this year, so I have 6 weeks to go before I reach our mark.

I have been feeling the same way though, I feel something and I get scared that there is something wrong with the baby.

I'm just glad that there are other girls that know how I feel and we can talk to each other about it.
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November 27th, 2005, 02:57 PM
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I know how you feel with having 3 miscarriages in a row but i think once you hit the 2nd trimester you will start to feel better
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November 27th, 2005, 05:52 PM
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Hi Ladies,

I'm a July Mummy too and after having a m/c earlier this year at 8 weeks I know too how you are feeling. I poke my breasts to see if they are sore and any little cramp for me is a threatened m/c.

I am too scared to tell anyone, we have 2 girls already and we just were worried so we told our family and friends with the last one and then we had the m/c and had to tell people. It was so hard, everytime I even thought about it I would break down.

I know we are all going to have gorgeous little bubs in a few months. I just keep telling myself - Jo, your an idiot for thinking this way. There is nothing wrong with the baby, just enjoy being pregnant.


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November 28th, 2005, 08:57 AM
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I know how you feel with having 3 miscarriages in a row but i think once you hit the 2nd trimester you will start to feel better
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3 miscarriages in a row???? It would seem after the second that the doctor should give you progesterone or something!!

I don't know I am new to all of this...I just heard of progesterone and how a woman took it after just one miscarriage....I am sure there are different scenarios..and one would never really know what the cause could be..

I guess I just never thought it could happen to me
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November 28th, 2005, 05:45 PM
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Oh I know that feeling. I was doing the same thing about 2 weeks ago. I was convinced that my symptoms were disappearing and that the nausea I felt was only in my head. The best thing that I did for myself was to realize that at some point there is nothing I can do to change what will or will not happen and to just enjoy every second that I have. I saw the HB last Monday, which eleviated a lot of my fears.

BTW - I'm a July DDer too!!
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November 29th, 2005, 12:44 PM
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unfortunately 2nd trimester won't make me feel better since that was when I lost my baby. I don't think I'll relax at all until I am holding my little baby in my arms.
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