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Next Monday we go in to see the sex of the baby but I always get scared right before a dr or ultra sound. Can’t seem really relax before the appts. Due to 2 prior m/s. The dr has never said anything negative this time around and everything is going good. Do other people feel this way before going to the dr?
I'm not quite as far along as you, but I do know what you're feeling. Unfortunately, we have the realization that everything is not always perfect, so that's all we think about before seeing the baby again.
I hope your appointment goes well and let us know what you're having!!
First let me wish you the best of luck with your appointment! I have felt like this, with ultrasounds in particular. Both times I miscarried I didn't know anything was wrong (no bleeding, cramping - no signs) - until I went to have the first ultrasound and found that it had stopped growing several weeks prior. So needless to say, everytime I go for an ultrasound I expect to hear the worst - even at my 20 week I was so nervous almost to the point of throwing up because of worry.
I really try to view the doctor's appointments as a way of confirming that my little guy is still ok, but there's always that tiny nagging doubt. I have to say that since i've been able to feel him move & kick on a regular basis is really once I started to calm down and worry so much less.
Good luck in finding out the sex!! It is such an awesome experience
M/c sure takes the innocence out of pregnancy. My first ultrasound before my m/c was pure excitement...I couldn't wait to see my little one on the screen. Wednesday will be my first ultrasound since my m/c with my new little one. I am so anxious... all I have been doing is praying my little one is healthy and strong!