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ok so i don't know what to think. it is 4:00 in the morning. i have complete insomnia. i have had this for a week now. i just tested. af is a no show and i got a BFN. i have been feeling nausiated for 2 weeks now. exhausted need to take naps. af like cramping for 1 1/2 weeks. fuller bbs sometimes hurt. dizzy spells in shower. i had a m/c in august i had no symptoms really. i tested the day after af didn't arrive and there was a very very faint line that time. this af like cramping is weird to me. i don't cramp before af. usually about 2-3 days into it i start to cramp. i haven't seen any today yet but yesterday when i cramped i would just have a clear sometimes yellowish discharge. i am running to the bathroom like crazy thinking af is here. and she is not. this is so unusual for me to be late in fact i am never ever late. except when i was pg. i sort of feel like the way i did when i was pg with ds. except i didn't cramp with him. i don't know what to think. i just can't believe i got a BFN. thats ok if af would just start because then i think something is wrong then all these stupid things start flashing through my mind. i just don't feel like i do right before af. i feel like i am pg. what should i do? i know my doctor will think i am nuts cause basically they don't want to see you till you have had a BFP on a hpt. i am going crazy here.
I'm sorry that you're not getting the results that you want at the moment! I would call the doctor anyway, explain the situation, and tell them that you need to get a pregnancy test done there to try & ease your mind. It sounds to me like you're pretty stressed (leading to the insomnia), and that has a way of affecting your cycles as well. How late are you?
When I was pregnant with my first child I went to a local clinic to get a blood serum pregnancy test. It came out negative but in my heart I KNEW that I was pregnant. I even argued with the nurses at the clinic because I knew they were wrong. So, I returned in two weeks and got a positive.
My point: follow your instincts until you know for sure; make sure you get a DR's test. Who cares what the DR thinks....you're paying for it (or your insurance does). If it is something other than pregnancy, then at least you found out before it becomes terrible.
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