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August 11th, 2008, 01:03 PM
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I am just curious how many of us are actually "in the mood" anymore?

I was always in the mood when I was pregnant with Abby. This pregnancy I avoided it the first trimester because of too many fears. Then I tried to get into it, and although its good, I could care less if we dtd or not. I don't know if its out of fear or what it is at this point. Just wondering how many of you are with me and could really go all pregnancy without? Am I alone?
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August 11th, 2008, 01:08 PM
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Nope your not alone. I have had no sex drive at all during this pg and its bugging DH to no end. I give in here and there but I could go the whole pg without it.
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August 11th, 2008, 01:13 PM
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I am NOT in the mood. As a matter of fact I intentionally tried to go to sleep before DH so I don't have to do it. I just have no interest...I am hot and tired and all I want to do is sleep. It is the last thing on my mind at the end of a day. I throw him a bone and give it up about every 10 days or so, but not because I am interested. Now in a few weeks I will be all over him hoping to get contractions started.
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August 11th, 2008, 01:18 PM
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I had no drive until about 15 weeks and then went mad for a while and now for the past 2 weeks have no drive at all. At least my hubby goes with the flow.....
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August 11th, 2008, 02:40 PM
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I have ZERO interest in DTD. We've probably done it 5 times this whole pg....poor DH. But he's so wonderful...he never complains. He's a trooper lol.
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August 11th, 2008, 03:27 PM
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My poor husband... He has never been a crazy always want it type, but now that I'm pregnant it seems to be that he wants it ALL the time. I used to be the one who wanted it all the time, now I just don't. I either haven't been feeling good, have been too tired or just really don't feel like it. I try to once in a while because I know he's having such a hard time with it but I feel really guilty for not doing it more for his sake
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August 11th, 2008, 05:25 PM
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I don't have a huge sex drive normally. I mean, it's good when I do, but I can honestly say I have only rarely REALLY wanted it. When I'm pregnant...eh. Whatever. I try to give some to DH at least once a week.

But he's been gone since July 21, and won't be back until Sept 1, so it's not like it's a pressing issue at the moment.
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August 11th, 2008, 06:33 PM
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Before bedrest I was always in the mood..but on pelvic rest from day one
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August 11th, 2008, 06:57 PM
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I'm like Brittanie - not that much of a drive to begin with. Lately I'm too tired for anything.
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August 12th, 2008, 04:52 AM
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When i was pregnant this time i so didnt want it!!! I hated it! half the time i made Dwayne sleep in the spare room! With the boys it was something that i needed all the time..LOL. i know horrible. but what can you do.
Its only normal to not want it.
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August 12th, 2008, 04:57 AM
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as soon as I had hit the 2nd trimester......I went into overdrive for some reason !LOL
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August 12th, 2008, 06:14 AM
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Im one of those sorts of ppl who has a great sex drive before... and then as soon as i get pregnant the sex turns into SUPER sex... so i love it... Although most of my first tri i was on pelvic rest... and since i hit about 25 weeks none of it is very energized on my side of things.. i enjoy it.. but id rather just lay there..

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August 12th, 2008, 10:21 AM
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I haven't wanted it either. I just do it to keep dh happy, hehehe!
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August 12th, 2008, 05:34 PM
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I normally really enjoy sex but lately...I'm always feeling sick or super bloated so it's just not something that works for me right now. It's not that I don't WANT to have sex, I just really...can't! Lol.
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August 12th, 2008, 06:53 PM
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That is so funny... I saw that the thread was named "personal question..." and I was like, "I bet it's about sex."
Maybe I have ESP or something!!

But to answer the question, a big fat NO. My poor DH doesn't even get to touch me without permission. I'm hoping my sex drive comes back soon, mostly for his sake!
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August 13th, 2008, 11:10 AM
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I was early in my 2nd tri., but not so much anymore....maybe bc I am starting to put on weight and all....who knows?!

Anyhow, wanted to congratulate you on feeling her move last week Rhonda. YAY!! I missed that post, but saw it when I was lurking on our DDC...
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August 13th, 2008, 04:28 PM
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That is so funny... I saw that the thread was named "personal question..." and I was like, "I bet it's about sex."
Maybe I have ESP or something!!

But to answer the question, a big fat NO. My poor DH doesn't even get to touch me without permission. I'm hoping my sex drive comes back soon, mostly for his sake![/b]
Maybe you do have ESP. lol Well, I didn't know what to name it and i know some of you may be shy. I just wonder why its so different this pregnancy. A part of me thinks that it is fear even though I know sex doesn't make us lose our baby. Another part of it is the fact that I am getting so much bigger and can't get into those fun positions anymore.

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I was early in my 2nd tri., but not so much anymore....maybe bc I am starting to put on weight and all....who knows?!

Anyhow, wanted to congratulate you on feeling him move last week Rhonda. YAY!! I missed that post, but saw it when I was lurking on our DDC...[/b]
She started moving Friday and now I have been feeling her off and on. I absolutely love it and hope she continues to stay very active for me. Now dh is starting to get impatient and wants to feel her kicking too. I hope that happens for him soon. Its so wonderful to know they are moving around in there and making themselves comfy. She is going to be a stubborn little girl though, I just know it. Thats why she took so long to let me feel her moving in there. I am so in love with her.
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