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I set it up today. I go in on Thursday. I am in a total panic. It has hit me like a wave. I am absolutely terrified. I dont exactly feel like something bad will happen again. Its a different feeling. Almost like someone is sitting on me and making it hard for me to breathe. I will be fine one minute and I will think about it and heart starts to pound so hard that I can hear it in my ears and feel it in my chest.
I am hoping that going to the doctor will make me feel better. But that has me scared in itself. They will do an ultrasound and it will look the same way it did last time and I will wait several weeks before knowing if my baby is going to make it past that mark.
Is this a normal feeling?
Did everyone else go thru this?
After you reached the point where your loss occured previously, did you feel like things would be okay?
Welcome to being pg after a loss. All you are feeling is normal. I paniced when I had my first doctor's appoinment, I was scare to death that they would not find a h/b. The second appointment was exactly the same as the first, the third one exactly the same. I don't know if it gets any better but with every doctor's appoinmemt it gets easier and you can relax and enjoy your pg more and more. I have already past the mark of my first lost and the DD too. But now, I have the big u/s in a week and I'm scare to death that something could be wrong.
Let us know the the appointment goes, I will tell you that for me once I saw that b/h it was a miracle, I was so happy and relieve, it makes it so much real. I never saw a h/b with my lost.