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October 2nd, 2008, 09:57 AM
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ok, i think this might be because im alone tonight. dh is working late.

but i was fine today, the way home from working i was telling myself how good i felt and that i really have a good feeling about this one.

but now. im scared again
im worried about not being about to pee properly. what if i have a uti? i only get to see my doc on 10 October, what if it causes a mc?
i also dont wake up to pee at night like all the other girls do in my ddc... what if thats a bad sign.

my boobs dont hurt all the time, i dont get nauseated, i am sleepy but i think i have a cold....

help?
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October 2nd, 2008, 10:23 AM
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I'm sure everything is fine Jenn. Can you see if you can get in sooner to see if you have a UTI? I actually didn't start waking up in the middle of the night to pee until about 8+ weeks. KUP on how you are. We all know how scary a time this is. You are in my t&p.
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October 2nd, 2008, 10:31 AM
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I can't remember how far I was when I started getting up in the middle of the night. I know now it's probably too late to call your doctor, but I would call them tomorrow morning and see if they can get you in for a urine test. Don't get me wrong, we all been there, some are going through it sometimes, it's scary and all you do is worry about everything. I think you are stressing yourself out, maybe take a bath or a hot shower, and relax for a bit, watch some Tv. Try to get a good night sleep and call your doctor in the morning. KUP

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October 2nd, 2008, 10:37 AM
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ok im going to go have a hot shower, have some soup and jump into bed. i think im reading to much on the net. like you said this is a reallllly stressful time, but then i shouldnt be stressing myself out to much. specially because i dont know whats goin on.

i will see how things go and will call the doc in the morning... i wish i had another pee stick to test again...lol
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October 2nd, 2008, 10:42 AM
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Also, no searching on the net, you will read too much into everything. I suggest no internet, it will stress you out even more. Let us know how you are doing in the morning.

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October 2nd, 2008, 10:44 AM
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thanx patty... i need a firm hand... i wont research anymore!
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October 2nd, 2008, 10:57 AM
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Oh Jenn! I understand completely esp. with the searching the internet thing. I actually had to put myself on a ban and when i did allow myself back on, i searched happy things like preggo bellies and baby items that i wanted to buy or research. I used to spend my whole work day on the net search anything and everything that i could think of: any symptom that i thought i might be having, any possible horrible scenario--It was driving me insane and then i realized that i was just helping myself suffer. I was making myself suffer miserably!
Hey, remember those kind and encouraging words that you sent to me not too long ago and try to apply those positive thoughts to yourself and your little bub.
We are here for you. I hope that things get better fast but if you don't feel better soon, we are always here for you! We have all been where you are at now.
Lots of love,
Tara
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