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Hey ladies. I know I joined the group a couple weeks ago but I just can't bring myself to really post a whole lot just yet. I have my first appt tomorrow at 3:15 and I am absolutely terrified that I'm going to get bad news. I am even going to ask them to do the u/s first because I don't want to get stuck paying for $600 worth of blood work if there is something wrong. I know I should be so negative but I am scared to death. I have moments when I'm really really excited but then i start thinking what if. I promise I will get more involved once I have my appt tomorrow and hopefully they will tell me everything looks great. Thanks for listening.
I completely understand, Jennifer! Finally getting pregnant after a loss or losses is just as nerve-wracking as the TTC after a loss. We'll be here when you are ready to join us more confidently! I hope your appointment tomorrow goes wonderfully and it gives you some peace of mind for the time being.
Honestly, that's the way I've always been, with the u/s first, and then the blood work. I can understand your reluctance to post. I hope that everything goes FABULOUSLY for you tomorrow and you see a healthy little bean with a heart that's beating away!
The first appointment/us is the worse, I remember crying the night before and that same morning, being scare that something was wrong. I understand that you haven't been posting much, I figured that that was the reason why and I did not want to bring it up. It's hard to think positive after having a loss, dh always says to me "be prepare for the worse and expect the best", and funny enough now I do that all the time. We are here for you girl. Everything will turn out well, you will be a beautiful h/b and you will fall in love with that baby and you'll start to get excited.