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  #1  
January 28th, 2009, 11:46 AM
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Hello, my name is Nette. I am the mother of 2 wonderful children. My DH and I began TTC #3 in Jan 07. Finally in May 08 I was pregnant. Then in June I had a miscarriage. I don't have to tell you how I felt. Immediately I needed to be pregnant again. But it did not happen. So I got a part time job and began concentrating on my life and family. Well last Wednesday thru Sunday I was so sick. Monday I took a test and there was a faint pink line. I was 11 DPO. AF is due today or tomorrow and I have no symptoms of her showing.... and btw I have 4 positive tests sitting here on my desk. This pregnancy feels different from the last and while at first I would not allow myself to get excited. Today I have not been able to stop it. I am excited. Still a little nervous but excited.

I do have a few twinges and a little pressure every so often, but if I remember with my first 2 babies that is normal. I just can't help running to the bathroom to make sure AF is not here. Then I get so happy when she is not.

I look forward to getting to know you all and having a healthy and happy pregnancy with you all.
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Proud Mommy of Kaisee Amber~March 3, 1998
Proud Mommy of Kameron Wesley~February 28, 2001
Proud Mommy of Kaiden Austin ~ August 3, 2009 (born 9 wks 3 day premature)

Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven~June 3, 2008
Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven ~March 2009 ~ Kaiden's Twin
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January 28th, 2009, 12:30 PM
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Hi Nette,

Your story is similar to mine. I just found out I was pregnant one week ago, a totally unexpected surprise after a m/c and being told I would probably never conceive on my own again!

I understand your nerves as I am going thru the same thing myself (as all the ladies on this board can relate).

I look forward to getting to know you better.
Congratulations!!!
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January 28th, 2009, 12:40 PM
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Nette,

Welcome to the board ! I am so sorry for your loss...I truly wish none of us had to know that pain~

i really hope you enjoy the board, the ladies are amazing and all of understand the fears that go along with PAL.

No concern or question is a "dumb" one ! Remember that! So jump right in with us.

I look forward to getting to know you !

sending you lots of sticky dust !
oh and................

CONGRATULATIONS !!!!
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January 28th, 2009, 01:44 PM
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Hey Nette!! I recognize you from TTCAL when I was there. Congratulations on your pregnancy!! PAL is terrifying, especially if it takes a while I think. Lots of sticky to you!
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January 28th, 2009, 02:09 PM
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Thank you all so much. Brittanie, I remember you too. So exciting to see you here.
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Proud Wife to Kevin~November 29, 2003(met October 24, 1998)

Proud Mommy of Kaisee Amber~March 3, 1998
Proud Mommy of Kameron Wesley~February 28, 2001
Proud Mommy of Kaiden Austin ~ August 3, 2009 (born 9 wks 3 day premature)

Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven~June 3, 2008
Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven ~March 2009 ~ Kaiden's Twin
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January 28th, 2009, 03:33 PM
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Hi Nette! I remember you from TTCAL and am excited that you get to join us over here!!!

Congrats and I look forward to getting to know you...this is a GREAT group of women
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January 28th, 2009, 04:27 PM
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UMMM... don't you remember... if ya pee ya gotta post! PICS we want PICS!

Seriously.... a big huge CONGRATS! I am soooo glad to finally see you over here

GROW BABY GROW!!!!!
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step-grandma to: Wesley (3), Rosemarie (7 months)



On 1/31/12 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss
If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pictures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
On August 2, 2012 we lost Sarah at 17 weeks. She was our 8th loss Her pictures can be viewed at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sarahdarrohn
There is no known explanation for my losses.

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January 28th, 2009, 05:03 PM
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i congratulated you on ttcal but wanted to say it again
congrats sweety!!!!!
im so pleased to see you over here
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January 28th, 2009, 07:35 PM
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Oh My Gosh Sara! I just noticed you are pregnant too! Oh Congratulations, I am so happy for you!!!!!!!!!

I will try to you some pics soon Bobbie..... :biggrin:
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Proud Wife to Kevin~November 29, 2003(met October 24, 1998)

Proud Mommy of Kaisee Amber~March 3, 1998
Proud Mommy of Kameron Wesley~February 28, 2001
Proud Mommy of Kaiden Austin ~ August 3, 2009 (born 9 wks 3 day premature)

Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven~June 3, 2008
Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven ~March 2009 ~ Kaiden's Twin
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January 28th, 2009, 07:37 PM
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Good cause I am in MAJOR POAS withdrawl! I may even pee on one myself Not pee on myself...LOL
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (22) Amanda (19) Matthew ( 4) and Daniel (3).... RYAN DAVID 1/4/14 8lbs 10oz 20 3/4 inches!!! My miracle happened!
step-mom to: Stephany (23) and Krista (20)
step-grandma to: Wesley (3), Rosemarie (7 months)



On 1/31/12 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss
If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pictures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
On August 2, 2012 we lost Sarah at 17 weeks. She was our 8th loss Her pictures can be viewed at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sarahdarrohn
There is no known explanation for my losses.

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January 28th, 2009, 09:20 PM
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Good cause I am in MAJOR POAS withdrawl! I may even pee on one myself Not pee on myself...LOL[/b]
LMAO !!!!



see Nette, this is why I LOVE this board!!!!!
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January 29th, 2009, 01:24 AM
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yep hun i got there in the end. hasnt been easy but so far my glow worm is sticky
i disable my siggy when i post on ttcal (when i remember) so some people do think im still trying if they havent been about
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January 29th, 2009, 04:05 AM
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Congratulation Nette!! and WELCOME to PAL!!

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January 29th, 2009, 06:06 AM
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i'm so sorry for your loss. i went through the same thing as you. congrats on the bfp x 4!!!!!! this pregnancy for me feels different from the last one too. I think that is a good sign!!! G/L and nice to meet you!
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January 29th, 2009, 08:47 AM
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Hi Nette. Sooooo very glad that you are able to join us here. I'm so excited for you and I know it's been a long road. We got pregnant and miscarried about the same time. Congrats again hun. I am so happy for you. I am sure that this pregnancy is going to go smoothly for you this time and I wish you a very H&H 9 months. Welcome to the group hun.
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January 29th, 2009, 10:27 AM
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Thanks Jennifer. That is right we did miscarry around the same time. I am so glad to see you are doing so great!
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Proud Wife to Kevin~November 29, 2003(met October 24, 1998)

Proud Mommy of Kaisee Amber~March 3, 1998
Proud Mommy of Kameron Wesley~February 28, 2001
Proud Mommy of Kaiden Austin ~ August 3, 2009 (born 9 wks 3 day premature)

Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven~June 3, 2008
Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven ~March 2009 ~ Kaiden's Twin
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January 29th, 2009, 07:02 PM
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Good cause I am in MAJOR POAS withdrawl! I may even pee on one myself Not pee on myself...LOL[/b]
Although with how close you are, sneeze and it just might happen anyway!

But totally congrats! I am so happy when people are pregnant here. I just makes me happy.
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