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February 17th, 2009, 04:42 PM
heathernoel's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I know I'm a basketcase today...

but I feel So guilty. The 9/09 board has had a tremendous number of losses, and I feel horrible about still being pregnant...that's on top of being done being pregnant already. I want the baby here and healthy, but I'm done feeling tired and hungry and crabby.

And I feel SO horrible when another mother learns the pain we all have known, and there's NOTHING I can do/say to make it any better.


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February 17th, 2009, 07:09 PM
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Oh honey, don't feel guilty. You've been through your fair share of pain, you don't need to feel guilty about not having a loss NOW. But I know how you feel. I have always felt very bad whenever I've seen others with losses too. I think it's natural, because we know how it feels.

As for being done being pregnant. Yeah, I feel you on that one too. I was done very early on too.
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February 18th, 2009, 01:14 PM
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I didn't post in the Sept DDC for a while because I was so afraid of being one of the ones to have a loss.

(((HUGS))) I know what you mean by wanting to have your baby here.I wish Sept was here already.
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