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February 18th, 2009, 01:18 PM
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I've started telling people about peanut, so one of my Bff's asked a friend of hers to pray for us. She says "She doesn't need another child she has one with special needs, I pray she miscarries". What a horrible thing for someone to say, I would take 10 special needs kids over ever having a miscarriage.
I have only met that lady once and didn't like her because she very judgmental.
It did get me worried that someone might be praying I lose my peanut.
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February 18th, 2009, 01:28 PM
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omg that is awful!!!!!!!!!!!!! im so sorry
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February 18th, 2009, 01:41 PM
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Omgosh!!

I am sooooo sorry someone would say something so terrible...and I'm pretty sure the Big Man upstairs knows which prayers to answer and which ones to obviosuly ignore! What an evil witch!!
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February 18th, 2009, 01:44 PM
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What a completely awful B**CH! I can't believe that I just said that but wow--what gives anyone the right to say something like that??? She has obvious never had to deal with the loss of a child.
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February 18th, 2009, 02:08 PM
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i can't believe ANYONE would say that.
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February 18th, 2009, 02:11 PM
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HOLY WOW! OMG..... that is SHOCKING! i cannot beleive someone would say that!!!! My SIL has an autistic little boy who will be 2 in april and is due with a little girl this march... and also had a chemical pregnancy between them.. and i KNOW she would rather have this baby even if she does have special needs over having another loss...

and why would someone with a special needs child have any less right to have another child to love and care for!!!!!

thats awful.. and dont worry about her prayers.. God will do what is right for you and your family.. not what someone ELSE (esspecially crazy MEAN ppl) thinks is right..

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February 18th, 2009, 02:21 PM
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I think that Em took my words right out of my mouth. What RIGHT does someone have to say something like that?!?!? And it's not like you don't take very good care of your little boy, obviously! Ugh, I hate people like that. That's more than heartless, that's hateful.

I agree with Danielle, God knows to ignore something like that. Especially when you have your JM sisters praying FOR your bean!

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February 18th, 2009, 06:10 PM
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Stuff like that really ticks me off. How dare she say something like that!! Whenever people say stuff like that, I just want to smack the heck out of them. Just ignore her. She's obviously a bitter woman.
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February 18th, 2009, 06:49 PM
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WHAT?!?!?!? That's crazy. Just ignore her, and remember, like Brittanie said, you have lots of people praying for a healthy, sticky bean!

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February 19th, 2009, 10:51 AM
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That is just TERRIBLE!!! She should be ashamed of herself, praying for a baby to die is extremely horrible.

Like everyone else here has said, we are praying for a beautily healthy peanut for you- ignore the mean ignorant lady!!
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February 19th, 2009, 01:39 PM
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I was worried but I figure God knows what he's doing. I never understood how people can be so mean.
My boys are loved, cared for and very spoiled, I have lots of room in my heart for one more.
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