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I've started telling people about peanut, so one of my Bff's asked a friend of hers to pray for us. She says "She doesn't need another child she has one with special needs, I pray she miscarries". What a horrible thing for someone to say, I would take 10 special needs kids over ever having a miscarriage.
I have only met that lady once and didn't like her because she very judgmental.
It did get me worried that someone might be praying I lose my peanut.
HOLY WOW! OMG..... that is SHOCKING! i cannot beleive someone would say that!!!! My SIL has an autistic little boy who will be 2 in april and is due with a little girl this march... and also had a chemical pregnancy between them.. and i KNOW she would rather have this baby even if she does have special needs over having another loss...
and why would someone with a special needs child have any less right to have another child to love and care for!!!!!
thats awful.. and dont worry about her prayers.. God will do what is right for you and your family.. not what someone ELSE (esspecially crazy MEAN ppl) thinks is right..
~Em, Married to Matt since 7/3/04. Mommy to Layla 3/29/06, Eva 10/18/08, Zeke 2/4/11, and Jonah 7/28/13
I think that Em took my words right out of my mouth. What RIGHT does someone have to say something like that?!?!? And it's not like you don't take very good care of your little boy, obviously! Ugh, I hate people like that. That's more than heartless, that's hateful.
I agree with Danielle, God knows to ignore something like that. Especially when you have your JM sisters praying FOR your bean!
Stuff like that really ticks me off. How dare she say something like that!! Whenever people say stuff like that, I just want to smack the heck out of them. Just ignore her. She's obviously a bitter woman.