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Tomorrow is my big ultrasound for this pregnancy. The only opening they had was on the due date of our angel we lost in Aug. I am so scared they are going to find something wrong or that the heartbeat will not be there. For the past week I have been having nightmares that something is wrong. I am not feeling this little one yet so it scares me even more. Last time I found out that the baby had passed DH was gone and I had to go through it alone. He is gone again (in Japan) so there is no support system. Please say an extra prayer that things go ok. Thanks for letting me vent.
Hugs, hugs, hugs!!!! I know what you mean.... I had (and stil have) awful nightmares especially when pregnant. We had this baby's first doctor appt on the birthday of my son, Isaac, who passed away. I NEVER make plans for that day, because I don't want to be around anyone. It was the only opening they had for awhile, so I had to take it. It was so difficult for me to go to that appt..... ugh, I was a mess of emotions. Try and take it easy..... I know it's hard though.... I do hope everything goes very smoothly for you this time around!
I don't know anything about the docs/nurses that you see, but I found that it helped if I just told them how scared I was and why, especially when DH couldn't be there. They were very supportive and I at least didn't feel so alone. Just an idea. We'll all be thinking about you too....keep that in mind!!
I understand what you are going through. Next Monday is our 19 w 3 day visit an ultrasound. This is also when Our last pregnancy ended... I did not even think of it until we got home and the appointment set.... I think
this will be the hardest appointment yet..
So you have someone to go with you? when I found out I was alone too.... Just went in for a normal appointment. With this pregnancy my Dh has been wonderful .He will not let me go alone anymore just " in case ".. I am sorry your Dh can not be there. Remember we are here for you and I will keep you in my thoughts until you post again !!
I know how you feel. On my EDD, April 22nd, with my angel I will be 17 weeks and I lost our angel at 18 weeks so I'm a mess, fear will consume me. A week later I will have my level 2 u/s. If you need to talk about it we are all here for you!