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April 3rd, 2009, 08:44 PM
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Ladies,

I just do not think I can host on JM anymore.... I simply can not give the boards the attention I used to.
things just too crazy here right now....and I need to deal with it....
Mick lost his job 3 days after we bought our new house....nice huh? so much for working for a "friend"...anyway...you ladies deserve so much more and I feel I have just been letting you down....

I hope you all understand how much I have loved hosting here....and love you all.... I will still post here of course...but I just think one of you other ladies should have a chance to host this fantastic group.
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April 4th, 2009, 03:02 AM
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Awwww, Dee, what a horrible thing to have to deal with right now! I'll be praying for you and Mick that he can find something else soon. Take the time you need, just don't disappear altogether!

Thank you for doing as much as you have as long as you have.
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April 4th, 2009, 03:16 AM
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Dee I am so sorry you are going through such stressful times right now.
I can understand your decision and respect it.
But know this; you are NOT allowed to leave, we will hunt you down
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April 4th, 2009, 05:15 AM
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Dee, I am so sorry things are rough for you and Mick right now. Loosing a job is soo stressfull, I hope he finds a good job right away. Lots of Hugs for both of you.

BTW, I don't feel let down by your hosting, you've done an amazing job!! I completely understand wanting to step back and take a break though and not having anything extra on your plate to stress you out, but Ditto to Katie......if you leave we will hunt you down!!

Thanks for all you have done!
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April 4th, 2009, 06:52 AM
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Thanks ladies

I appreciate it very much......

i am not leaving totally ! trust me !
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April 4th, 2009, 08:44 AM
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Oh Dee we all love you so much but I think that everyone can understand where you are coming from! I hope that things brighten up soon and I will keep you in my prayers!
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April 4th, 2009, 09:35 AM
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I completely understand, you have done so great for so long!!!! I am so sorry about Mick losing his job!! YIKES!!! that is horrible
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April 4th, 2009, 10:06 AM
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I am very sorry about the job situation, I'm certain with some time things will all work out!
Don't you dare be a stranger!!
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April 4th, 2009, 01:40 PM
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I don't think anyone would expect that you stay on when you need to focus your time elsewhere. I don't think we are so selfish. I hope everything resolves for you and your DH soon and you aren't too impacted.
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April 5th, 2009, 05:58 AM
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I hope everything works out for you and Mick sooner than later. I agree with everyone else, we'll hunt you down!

Try to keep us posted with Katie pics when you can, she's just beautiful!
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April 5th, 2009, 11:32 AM
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Awwww, Dee!!! You have been a wonderful host, and I'm sorry to see you step down, but of course we understand. Family and home come first! I hope things work themselves out for Mick and you guys can get back on normal ground again soon! We're always here when you need us!
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April 5th, 2009, 12:09 PM
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oh Dee i'm so sorry to hear of your DH's job situation - how stressful with everything else going on right now! you've been a great host here and we really appreciate the effort you've put into this board
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April 5th, 2009, 07:26 PM
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Dee, I hope things get better soon with the job situation. You have been an awesome host and I know you will stick around because everyone here will make you.
We love you whether you are a host or a member and hope things get better for you soon.
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April 5th, 2009, 08:34 PM
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Dee, you've been a wonderful host. I don't think you have let anyone down. But, as you can see, everyone understands when family priorities come into play. I am sooo sorry for the job situation and I pray that things work out very quickly. Please keep us updated. Your input is always so helpful. Please stay in touch and KUP! Thanks for being so welcoming and supportive.
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April 6th, 2009, 07:33 AM
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thank you all so very much. It was not easy for me to step down from my boards, especially from this one.

we found out yesterday that Micks boss is making it sound like Mick just never showed up for work over the past month...* he doesnt want to pay unemployment*
..Mick even took a 6.00 cut in pay that I never knew about until yesterday.
His boss cut his pay when he found out we were buying the house. Nice huh??? and this is someone Mick was friends with.

Thank God we have a little "cushion" but how long will that last kwim?

thank you all so very much. It was not easy for me to step down from my boards, especially from this one.

we found out yesterday that Micks boss is making it sound like Mick just never showed up for work over the past month...* he doesnt want to pay unemployment*
..Mick even took a 6.00 cut in pay that I never knew about until yesterday.
His boss cut his pay when he found out we were buying the house. Nice huh??? and this is someone Mick was friends with.

Thank God we have a little "cushion" but how long will that last kwim?
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April 6th, 2009, 07:43 AM
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Im sorry that happened with Micks job hun I hope he is able to find another job soon x
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April 6th, 2009, 08:03 AM
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Dee, I'm so sorry to see you step down, but always understand that family comes first. I hope Mick finds a better job soon. You are always in my t&p. You just better not ever leave us. We'd all hunt you down and bring you back. Lots of love to you honey! You have been an amazing host!!!!!!
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April 6th, 2009, 05:44 PM
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Im so sorry to hear about Mick! How awful! I hope he finds something else fast.

Thanks so much for being such a dedicated host here. You have been an awesome host and gotten lots of women through their pgs. Thanks hun!
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April 7th, 2009, 05:53 AM
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I hope he kept prior paystubs or something to prove that he was paying him... What a nice friend ... Sorry that you are haivng to go through this... ..
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April 7th, 2009, 07:07 PM
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I hope he kept prior paystubs or something to prove that he was paying him... What a nice friend ... Sorry that you are haivng to go through this... ..

Mick kept records of everything.....
ooooh I just want to call that guy and just go OFF
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