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So I am not really "new"
I posted when I had my misscarriage last june and found this site to be very supportive. I couldn't figure out my old password so just figured i'd make a new account!
Anyway. I wasn't trying to get pregnant. My birth control failed me. I am about 8 weeks pregnant right now and going insane!
I am sooooo scared. I haven't told anyone (besides my husband) as I just won't be able to deal with it if something happens again. I was 17 weeks pregnant when we lost our baby last time. They never found a reason.
Everytime I go to the bathroom I am scared to wipe. I freak when my back twinges or when i have cramps.
I can't go on like this! I wish i could see the future and say oh this time it's going to be ok.
I am soooo depressed.
They can't see me at the dr. until the beg. of may so i will have to wait.
What have you done to pass the time?
When did you decide to tell other people?
I'm scared of wanting this baby to much. But if i keep thinking so negatively I know this isn't good for my baby either!
Any advice is appreciated!
I was pregnant a year ago at this time also.
The other thing that concerns me is every other time i've been pregnant i've had severe can't get out of bed morning sickness. this time it just feels like my stomach is upset all the time. My breasts are very tender and you can feel my uterus is bigger. I don't know i guess i'm just overreacting!
First of all, congrats on your bfp! Secondly, you're not overreacting. You've had a loss so your innocence is gone. Unfortunately, pregnancy is pretty stressful without that innocence. As for your symptoms, every pregnancy is different. You are still having symptoms, so I would try not to worry. Waiting for Dr.'s appt's is terrible, and the only way I can get through it is to spend all of my time here.