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I'm starting to be very afraid that this bean isn't going to stick. I had a great day yesterday. I felt sure I didn't have to worry about anything. This morning on his way out the door Matt asked me to hold of on the digi until he was home so he could see the word PREGNANT pop up. No big deal. I can handle that. So instead I took a FRER and a $ test. The FRER is negative and the dollar store test is so light that I can barely see it IRL. I had just a bit of spotting this morning too. I am not even telling DH about it. I was sure at first that it was because we DTD last night, but now...now I'm not so sure.
Steph, hopefully when you tested it was just not concentrated enough, are you getting up allot at night to go to the bathroom, cause sometimes during the first week or so my lines were darker mid day than in the am because of how often I got up during the night, i am hoping all is well and that your bean is a sticky bean, i will certainly be saying plenty of prayers!!
This morning I did test earlier than I planned on testing. so maybe it wasn't concentrated enough. I keep telling myself all the things I would say to someone else going through this. I'm either 11 or 14 dpo right now. Not 100% sure which, but likely the 11 dpo is closer after looking at things again.
As to when AF is due....my cycles have been running from 27-30 days. Today was CD 27 so just any time. I spent most of the day sleeping or just laying around and haven't had any other spotting or anything, so hopefully that's a good sign. I don't know. Just kind of trying to prepare myself for the worst case scenario I guess.
I know me, Bobbie and a few other PAL ladies got WAY darker lines with afternoon urine for some reason...my FMU tests would be so light you could barely see them but my tests around 5 in the evening would be blaring...
Just keep resting like you are doing and taking it easy...just explain to DH what happened and ask him if he would be willing to maybe wait a few more days on the digi...