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May 18th, 2009, 11:30 AM
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I can not believe it has been 2 yrs already....the time has just flown by....
I sat last night and wondered, if things had been different, would I have Katie?

I can not imagine my life without her, and at the same time I felt guilty for thinking, well if I had had the first baby.....she would not be here...what a range of emotions we have to go through before during and after our losses....
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May 18th, 2009, 11:59 AM
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I'm so sorry Dee! I wish none of us ever had to have these feeling going on inside. I will be thinking of you tomorrow!
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May 18th, 2009, 12:19 PM
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I'm sorry Dee.....I actually found myself thinking the same thing. If my first was here, then Alex would not and I can't imaging my life without him....I just think, or like to think that I got both in one, kwim?
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May 18th, 2009, 12:22 PM
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I find myself thinking that sometimes too, about Erin. While, for me it would have been physically possible to have them both, since I got pregnant with Erin 5 months after delivering Cora, I definitely would not have been trying.

Anyway, I hope the day is gentle on you.
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May 18th, 2009, 02:35 PM
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Dee, I join you in your sadness. My EDD for my bean was tomorrow too. I would be giving birth to my first baby if things had worked out.
So surreal, and unfair. Hugs to you xoxox
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May 18th, 2009, 05:37 PM
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I have to believe that everything happens for a reason, even when we don't understand them. And, it doesn't make you feel better when you're going through it. But, you have a beautiful baby that makes life worth it...a baby that might not have been here if your angel had not gotten wings. And, you have an angel watching over you. I'm sorry for your loss and I celebrate your blessings. I'm thinking of you!
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May 18th, 2009, 05:41 PM
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I'm really sorry Dee...

I was just thinking yesterday that it's almost been 2 years for me too.

It's so hard!!!

I'm thinking of you girl!!!

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May 19th, 2009, 04:48 AM
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Hey Dee, thinking of you here hunny. I'm so sorry. Time does go by too quickly. I think the same thing all the time. I've learned to be grateful and thankful to Morgan because if he was born, we wouldn't have Gabriella.

I'm most thankful to God for getting us here, He has carried all of us through our healing even when we don't know it.

hugs for you hun
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May 19th, 2009, 09:20 AM
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Thinking of you today Dee! Thinking about "what might have been" is so...... difficult, at times.
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May 19th, 2009, 11:10 AM
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May 19th, 2009, 11:57 AM
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Thinking of ya sweety
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May 19th, 2009, 05:09 PM
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(((HUGS)))) I think those same kind of things Dee. I wish we could have our angel and our new baby!!! I will light a candle for him tomorrow
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May 19th, 2009, 10:42 PM
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