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I can not believe it has been 2 yrs already....the time has just flown by....
I sat last night and wondered, if things had been different, would I have Katie?
I can not imagine my life without her, and at the same time I felt guilty for thinking, well if I had had the first baby.....she would not be here...what a range of emotions we have to go through before during and after our losses....
I'm sorry Dee.....I actually found myself thinking the same thing. If my first was here, then Alex would not and I can't imaging my life without him....I just think, or like to think that I got both in one, kwim?
I find myself thinking that sometimes too, about Erin. While, for me it would have been physically possible to have them both, since I got pregnant with Erin 5 months after delivering Cora, I definitely would not have been trying.
I have to believe that everything happens for a reason, even when we don't understand them. And, it doesn't make you feel better when you're going through it. But, you have a beautiful baby that makes life worth it...a baby that might not have been here if your angel had not gotten wings. And, you have an angel watching over you. I'm sorry for your loss and I celebrate your blessings. I'm thinking of you!
Hey Dee, thinking of you here hunny. I'm so sorry. Time does go by too quickly. I think the same thing all the time. I've learned to be grateful and thankful to Morgan because if he was born, we wouldn't have Gabriella.
I'm most thankful to God for getting us here, He has carried all of us through our healing even when we don't know it.