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May 22nd, 2009, 10:40 AM
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So what is with people that have to try and ruin your day??? I told a close friend about me being preggo and she says " do you think thats a good idea?" I was like of course its a good idea ***.... she thinks that I am not ready for another baby and should wait till its been a few more years since Rennon died.... Its been 2 years and we desperatley want another baby and have since we lost Rennon, we arent trying to replace him at all, and we are not trying to live some fantasy of bringing him back to life, as much as we wish we could we aren't thinking like that at all, you would think she could just be nice and say congrats instead of lecturing me about how I should have waited longer and how this is a big mistake and she doesnt see it going well..... my hormones are crazy right now and I cry over everything never mind a comment like that.

Sorry just had to vent...
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May 22nd, 2009, 11:03 AM
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WHAT?!?!?!I can't believe she said that...You wanted her to celebrate with you, not give her uninformed and unnecessary opinion. (Can you tell I'm hormonal today, too?) I'm sorry she said that...some people. Sheesh! I'm sure she cares, and she thinks she's in some weird way "helping" but, I think that some people don't give any consideration to what they are going to say before they say it. Keep your chin up...you know you're ready and you know that having this baby is what you want
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May 22nd, 2009, 12:03 PM
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WOW, who need mean people when you have a close friend like that?????? I'm sorry she said that, it was out of line.... but what kind of close is she? I know that she's probably worry that the same thing that happened to you could happen again, but needs to be happy and supportive, that's what friends are for. I think she said that because she cares a lot about you, now don't get my wrong, I'm not supporting her comment but I understand why she said it.
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May 22nd, 2009, 02:40 PM
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(((HUGS))) Friends have a way of telling you what they think you should do and expect you to listen to them.
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May 23rd, 2009, 05:52 AM
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Yeah maybe she was just trying to look out for me, I found it very rude and sad that she would say it to me, everyone knows how much we want a baby, maybe Im just overly emotional ....
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May 24th, 2009, 09:09 AM
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I'm sorry she said that to you. Perhaps it's just too soon for her. Some people are like that. I might have yelled at her for you, had I been there.
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