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February 25th, 2006, 01:53 PM
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I am hoping I feel silly about this later - but I am nervous today. My bb's don't seem to hurt - at present they don't hurt at all. Maybe that's normal - I don't know, but it makes me uncomfortable. I am trying not to think about it. I took another HPT today (simply because I had it left lying around & I'm nervous). It came back positive right away - but of course it would....I was 570 on Thurs - so no matter what it would. UGH - I am going to take a nap & hope that when I wake up I won't be as anxious or perhaps my bb's will hurt again. I guess I just need to vent it out - there's nothing I can do but wait for more tests results..I just am not very patient at all - at least not about this stuff.
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February 25th, 2006, 02:15 PM
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I went through this exact same thing early on. My bbs felt less sore and I just didn't feel the same as before. I went to the ER just because I was so nervous and wanted to make sure that my levels were rising and all. And they were. I told the docs and nurses there about how my symptoms had significantly lessened and they were surprised saying that was not a bad thing, but a lucky thing. So, Ive never used my symptoms decreasing as a sign again. Some days my bbs are super sore and somtimes not at all. Sometimes I'm lightheaded and sometimes not.

It probably is just nerves and you have the right to be nervous. But dont freak out just yet over changing symptoms And if you do freak out, feel free to freak out here, we are always listening !
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February 25th, 2006, 08:10 PM
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I am right there with ya, especially today. My boobs don't hurt as much either. I probably wouldn't be as worried if I didn't have a little blood in my undies earlier. ( sorry tmi) However, it was very little AND I am using the progesterone suppositories which have made me bleed from irritation every now and then. It has NEVER been on my undies before though, but I am not stressing! I have had nothing since, so I have calmed down a bit. You know if it happens again though, I am calling the doc!

Sorry for the vent. Thanks for reading!
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February 26th, 2006, 12:58 AM
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Nicole - I'm with ya on the holding my breath sometimes - I hate it! I do have to say I am a little relieved to have my sore bb's return tonight . I think I am going to have to talk more with my RE after the U/S to see what is normal, etc & get the "crazies" out of my head.
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My mom is a neverending song in my heart of comfort, happiness, and being. I may sometimes forget the words but I always remember the tune. ~Graycie Harmon
Don't wait to make your son a great man - make him a great boy. ~Author Unknown
You don't raise heroes, you raise sons. And if you treat them like sons, they'll turn out to be heroes, even if it's just in your own eyes. ~Walter M. Schirra, Sr.
A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest. ~Irish Proverb
Mother's love is peace. It need not be acquired, it need not be deserved. ~Erich Fromm
Children need love, especially when they do not deserve it. - Harold Hulbert
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February 26th, 2006, 09:57 AM
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Just gonna chime in here....

I noticed that my bb's woul dbe sore and then not, and I was a bit concerned. I asked several women at work who had kids, and they all said they experienced similar things. They would be so sore you could barely put a bra on one minute and then nothing. That kind of put my mind at rest, and then I asked my doctor. He explained that the hormone surges can cause this, and it is generally considered normal. I don't blame you for being nervous though.
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February 26th, 2006, 02:09 PM
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Beck, I was SO nervous this morning. When I woke up my boobs didn't hurt AT ALL! I thought, uh-oh but since then they are slowly getting more sore. ( Probably due to me punching them ) I also realized that I have not worked out since Thurs. and that maybe that had something to do with it. Who knows! Thought I'd let ya know. How are you today?


Boxerlove1, I have to say that every time I read something from you I cry reading your Beautiful Signature. It just touchs me SO much! It really is the most beautiful "poem" I have ever read. Also, thank you for your post about the bb soreness. It has made me feel better!
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February 27th, 2006, 09:54 AM
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I went through that too... I'd poke at my boobs hoping they were still sore... For a while I was obsessed w/ the idea that they were shrinking... that drove Matt nuts since he insisted they were NOT.
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February 27th, 2006, 03:16 PM
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New to this board... I've been on a few others but just found this one for some reason... I'm almost 15 weeks pregnant now after losing my son to Trisomy 18 last September. And I have to say.... I am nervous ALMOST every single day. My Dr's office schedules my appts. 4 weeks away, but the understand my dilemna and will see me whenever I need to. There hasn't been more than two weeks at a time go by where I'm not bawling my eyes out and call them... Everything continues to be okay. But just know, you are incredibly normal.
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