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February 27th, 2006, 05:26 AM
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Okay I am 4 weeks and 5 days pregnant well since my last af........besides bloated and a few cramps here and there nothing....The biggest thing I am worries about is that I don't have any sore boobs...my first pregnancy I did have them....ended in mc my second I never had them ended in a blighted ovum? So you can see why I am sooo scared right now...I don't have sore boobs so I am thinking the same thing last time will happen again.....does anyone know what hormaone makes you have sore boobs? I am soo scared I cannot go through this again for a third time...any help would be great!
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February 27th, 2006, 06:42 AM
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Sore boobs is not necessarily a symptom that everyone has. Mine were sore for a bit with my 1st, then they were just BIG. Do you still have other symptoms?

At 4 weeks 5 days I wouldn't expect too much just yet - although if there's any doubt PLEASE see your doc or A doc...

It really is true that every pregnancy is different. With me, I always get really THIRSTY and my breath gets stank. I have this 'full' feeling in my abdomen and constant fluttering as well. No sickness (thank god!). Then there's my mom - mom insists she was deathly ill from day 1 , and that's why she had just me!

It's hard not to obsess after a loss. I find myself squeezing my boobs now, waiting for them to be sore. Maybe I'll luck out? Maybe you will too... I'll say a prayer
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February 27th, 2006, 06:45 AM
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Mine weren't super sore at first. Let me tell you this, compared to when I first found out I was pg to when I was about 8 weeks was a major difference in symptoms. There was nausea, vomiting, aching boobs, etc. I wouldnt' count the symptoms as indicators. You will go crazy if you dwell on that, like I did the first couple of weeks. If you really get worried (because I thought my symptoms were waning), you can do like I did and go to the ER,,,it will give you peice of mind, but also cost you big bucks.

When is your first appointment?
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February 27th, 2006, 07:05 AM
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Okay I am 4 weeks and 5 days pregnant well since my last af........besides bloated and a few cramps here and there nothing....The biggest thing I am worries about is that I don't have any sore boobs...my first pregnancy I did have them....ended in mc my second I never had them ended in a blighted ovum? So you can see why I am sooo scared right now...I don't have sore boobs so I am thinking the same thing last time will happen again.....does anyone know what hormaone makes you have sore boobs? I am soo scared I cannot go through this again for a third time...any help would be great![/b]

Hello,
I just wanted to add. Every preg. is different. I have had three healthy kids and 3 miscarriages. An With my two healthy boys my boobs where not very sore. With my daughter my boobs where sore. An only with one of my miscarriges my boobs where sore. So i don't think if your boobs are not sore it's not a sign of anything being wrong. My current preg. my boobs are not sore and my husband says just consider your self lucky.

Good luck

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February 27th, 2006, 08:45 AM
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Yep! every pregnancy is soo different. I wouldnt' worry about it. My breasts were only sore w/ DD & this pregnancy & not w/ my boys.

Congratulatiosn on your pregnancy!!
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February 27th, 2006, 02:52 PM
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First congrats on you pregnancy. In all the literature I have read it always says not two pgs are the same. If you want all the symptoms all the time it is just not going to happen. ( thank goodness). I have had several pgs all with different symptoms. If you are concerned call your Doc . Blessings B
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February 27th, 2006, 06:56 PM
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I wouldn't worry about that part... When I was pregnant with my Son, they hurt non stop!!! With this one, it took a couple of months and of course... worried me sick. Try to not worry about that part and celebrate your pregnancy.
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February 28th, 2006, 06:56 AM
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I didn't get sore boobs until WELL into the second trimester, and even the/now they were never really 'sore' but my nipples hurt like heck.

I would not worry about sore boobs....you are only what 4 some weeks along, you don't even have THAT huge a number of hormones and hormanal changes are what bring on the some of the symptoms...

with me thirst does not begin to describe my desire for liquid!! ha ha and I burp ALOT..crazy I know but I didn't have any of the 'typical' signs, even m/s did not ick in for weeks and weeks.

If you are concerned always ask a doc, we are all here to help but we don't know you, can't see you and aren't medical professionals so I will never tell you to 'just ignore it' but I will suggest you relax, talk to your doc and enjoy the pregnancy. ((((HUGS))))
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February 28th, 2006, 08:28 AM
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I've never gotten sore boobs with this pregnancy. I had a few weeks of tinglely nipples but that's it. If it hadn't been for the tiredness and being sick I would have never known I was pregnant. So don't worry about 'missing' symptoms..
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