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  #1  
June 15th, 2009, 12:41 PM
~Angela~'s Avatar Mommy to 3
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My name is Angela. I have 2 children and had a m/c in December of 08. I am currently 9.5 weeks pg (as I was when I found out last time there was no hb).

This pg. is different than my first 2. At 4 weeks I spotted for about a week, and took it as a sign I would m/c, but somehow I didn't. I have severe m/s, which I didn't have with my first 2, but did with the short time of my last pg. I am so paranoid about everything. I thought once I got past the spotting, I'd be ok, but I can't get past this lingering feeling that I'm still going to m/c. I'm sure this is normal after a loss, I'm sure a lot of you have gone through the same thing.

Anyway, I'd like to join and post my paranoid questions

Congrats to all you who are pregnant out there!
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June 15th, 2009, 12:51 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. PAL is a roller coaster ride, but the JM girlies here definitely help with the lows (and the highs) of the journey. Happy and Healthy 9 months to you!
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June 15th, 2009, 01:02 PM
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Sorry about your loss but congrats on this pg! PAL is scary but these bunch of ladies are wonderful.
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June 15th, 2009, 01:04 PM
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Hi Angela! Welcome to PAL! Congratulations on your pregnancy! I'm so excited for you! After a loss it's understandable that you're worrying. But, it doesn't mean anything is wrong. So far, everything is going so well for you. I'm glad the spotting has stopped and you're heading into your second trimester in just a few weeks! Feel free to jump right in and post all of your worries and questions. I know that whenever I have posted here, the women have been fantastic. You'll find tremendous support and kindness here. You'll also find out that your worries are similar to what we all have felt (and sometimes still feel). I hope your m/s isn't hitting you too hard. And, please KUP on how you're doing. Welcome again!
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June 15th, 2009, 01:07 PM
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welcome and congrats. pal is scary, but we are all here for you
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June 15th, 2009, 06:18 PM
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Hi! Glad you are posting in here now! It's hard to feel completely comfortable after a loss. I didn't really start posting in here regularly until a couple of weeks ago myself.
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June 15th, 2009, 06:52 PM
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Hi Angela, great to see you made your way over here - welcome!! No questions are too paranoid...we've all either been there or are currently there with you! HUGS
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June 15th, 2009, 07:37 PM
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Congrats!!!!!

What you are feeling is very normal, I am still scared of losing Norah as I was with the boys. You will relax some but you will never be totally carefree. I will be praying for you and baby.
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June 15th, 2009, 08:36 PM
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Congrats and welcome!! I understand all your worries. I still worry everyday- ugh!
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June 15th, 2009, 11:54 PM
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Im so sorry for your loss hun, but congrats on this pregnancy! I understand your worries too, I am just over 26weeks now and I still worry! I dont think I will stop worrying until I am holding my baby in my arms.

I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months!
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June 16th, 2009, 02:48 AM
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congratulations and welcome
what you feel is defo normal after a loss hun but dont ever be afraid of sounding silly or paranoid here as we all understand those fears so feel free to post and get the support you need through this rollercoaster
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June 16th, 2009, 05:46 AM
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Welcome and congratulations!
Everything you are feeling is totally normal when it comes to PAL, it is all one long rollercoaster.
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June 16th, 2009, 06:24 AM
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Thanks everyone!!!
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