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  #1  
August 22nd, 2009, 08:07 AM
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Thanks for all your kind thoughts and words. I am heading up to the hospital again. I had pushed for a sooner u/s, and they gave me an appointment for Tuesday. I still haven't felt any movement, and I haven't been able to find the baby's heartbeat on the doppler since yesterday morning. All I hear is my own, much slower, heartbeat. I expect to be told that he has passed. My belly feels different (softer on top), so that isn't giving me much hope. I am having back cramps which makes me wonder if labor is going to start on it's own? I don't know. I've been here before, but I still just don't know. I keep hoping that there is some strange explanation, but I don't have much hope. I don't know how to survive this a second time, I really, really don't. This hurts so badly. I will update you when I can.
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August 22nd, 2009, 08:45 AM
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Laurie, with all my heart I will be hoping and praying that all is well with your little one. You have suffered so much already. Please KUP on how you are both doing. Lots of love and hugs.
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August 22nd, 2009, 09:13 AM
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I am so sorry you are going through this Laurie. I am hoping and praying with everything in me that all is going to be ok.
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August 22nd, 2009, 09:13 AM
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Oh Laurie

I'll be praying for your guys.
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August 22nd, 2009, 09:46 AM
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Sending you prayers and and wishing I could do something more to help you.
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August 22nd, 2009, 11:26 AM
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I'm praying for you that everything is ok and maybe the baby is just having an off day and hes laying weird so you can't find the heartbeat. I'm saying a million prayers for you!
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August 22nd, 2009, 05:22 PM
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The hospital confirmed by u/s that Declan has passed. They sent us home for the night, but we go back tomorrow morning to begin the induction. Thanks for all your thoughts and kind words. I am just....speachless. I can't believe this has happened again. I am trying to come to grips with losing Declan and possibly losing my dream of having more children. I am beyond devastated. There are no words.
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August 22nd, 2009, 05:33 PM
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OMG Laurie my heart is breaking for you, i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. This is is just horriable i'm so sorry
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August 22nd, 2009, 07:11 PM
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Laurie, I am so, so sorry. There are just no words. Many thoughts and prayers are with you.

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August 22nd, 2009, 08:48 PM
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i am just so sorry.
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August 22nd, 2009, 09:55 PM
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stopping in fromt he july 09 PR to send you my condolences. I'll be praying for you and your family at this difficult time

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August 22nd, 2009, 10:06 PM
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Stopping in from TTCAL, and just sending many prayers to you and your family. May God see you through this difficult time.
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August 23rd, 2009, 04:52 AM
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Laurie, I am so so sorry. I can't imagine the pain that you are in. My heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss of Declan.
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August 23rd, 2009, 07:31 AM
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Just stopping by to tell you you're in my prayers. I'm so, so sorry for your loss. ((((hugs))))

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August 23rd, 2009, 08:13 AM
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I'm so sorry.
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August 23rd, 2009, 08:42 AM
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Im so sorry hun
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August 23rd, 2009, 09:16 AM
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Popping in from July '09 PR. I am so, so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.

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August 23rd, 2009, 10:20 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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August 23rd, 2009, 10:44 AM
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Stopping in from the July 09 PR, I am so sorry for your loss!! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!
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