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March 27th, 2006, 04:46 PM
soontobemommyto3
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Lately when I feel my baby kick I think Oh Cassie's kicking WTH? Then I remember that isn't Cassie in there it is Sadie! What the heck is wrong with me!

I imagine it is because Cassie has been on my mind a lot this past week or so because I'm at the point in this pregnancy where I lost her. And I know I call my other kids their wrong names when I am preoccupied with one of them for whatever reason.

But I feel like I'm crazy. Will I bond with this child? Do I think this is a replacement baby for Cassie? Argh....
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March 27th, 2006, 06:54 PM
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That is not crazy at all. I can see that happening to me when i get pg again. Of course you will bond with this Sadie but you will also never forget Cassie.
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March 28th, 2006, 06:28 AM
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Not crazy at all. You'll bond with Sadie, closer then you could ever imagine, and you'll NEVER forget Cassie. (((hugs))) Sadie is not a replacement baby I don't think there is such a thing. (((HUGS)))
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March 28th, 2006, 10:31 AM
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I think you will bond just fine. I think it's just like you said, you call your other kids by their siblings names unintentionally, as do a lot of mothers (I know mine did), so this is the same thing. I am sure you will start calling Sadie by your other daughters name when she is born, especially since they both begin with S.
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March 28th, 2006, 10:34 AM
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You should see me try to call the cat I go through everyones names, kids my DH and then I'm like whatever the heck your name is and the cat just looks at me like I'm crazy (but then she always gives me that look).

Maybe it is pregnancy brain....
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March 28th, 2006, 10:43 AM
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My mother would call me my brother's name, her nephews and nieces, and her little brother's name. I sometimes call my dogs DH's name, I know it's going to be bad when the baby gets here.
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March 28th, 2006, 01:17 PM
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I'm sure you'll bond w/ Sadie just fine. I think that Cassie is always going to be a part of you & it's very normal to think of her at this point.
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