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March 28th, 2010, 12:09 PM
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are you starting to feel a little less nervous?
I know it never really goes away
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March 28th, 2010, 12:44 PM
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I still have days where I am nervous, and I'm in the third trimester. They are definitely fewer and further between since I have been out of the 1st, but it is always something that is in the back of my head.
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March 28th, 2010, 01:33 PM
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I have more happier moments than scared moments, but definitely still nervous most of the time. I have my big u/s this Friday. I'm taking it one step at a time. This week, I just need to learn that the baby is OK before I can move on to the next worry... but each worry I pass is one less worry I have - so that part is good!
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March 28th, 2010, 01:50 PM
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I'm feeling much better now. There are still moments, but very few. Now that I can feel the baby kicking and moving around, it's a relief.
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March 28th, 2010, 02:15 PM
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Slowly but surely, I'm starting to feel a little less nervous... I'm in the 3rd trimester now, and am starting regular growth u/s today, and I think that is going to help me a lot.......... being able to regularly SEE Emersyn & hear that everything looks good, but also on the off chance things DON'T look good, knowing that I am being monitored & that the doctors will take whatever steps necessary to ensure she is born healthy, then that helps...
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March 28th, 2010, 05:59 PM
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less nervous but still nervous!
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March 28th, 2010, 07:42 PM
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I felt much much less nervous for a long time, particularly when I hit the point of viability. But I had a rough doctor's appointment Monday and it has totally shattered my self confidence. If Grant weren't such an active baby I would have totally lost my mind this week.
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March 28th, 2010, 10:14 PM
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I'm now getting more nervous that I'm in my 2nd trimester...My doctor told me it probably won't get any better before it gets worse...I'm hoping when I get past the point of loss i'll feel better...I think i'm in for a rough couple of months
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March 28th, 2010, 10:19 PM
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Since my losses were so early - I'm feeling much better. Feeling movement and the 20 week u/s were the two most helpful things. I'm actually excited now. Nervous for labour - but it feels like a normal nervous - not the continuous fear of the first trimester - KWIM?
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March 29th, 2010, 08:23 AM
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For me since I started feeling baby move I have felt a lot better. Those movements provide a lot of reassurance.
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March 29th, 2010, 08:41 AM
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I have felt better since I can feel baby move every day now. I think that once I get past the point of losing Eli (26 weeks) I will hopefully start feeling a lot better.
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March 29th, 2010, 09:16 AM
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I am in the 3rd trimester and feeling MUCH better now Occasionally I get worried if I haven't felt Cole move for a while. But he is sooo good at making his mommy feel better He always moves every night when DH and I are relaxing and watching a show together. So my worry doesn't last for long!!
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March 29th, 2010, 08:14 PM
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I feel better now that I can feel bubs moving and because I have a good team of docs looking after me, but now more nervous because I've never been induced before scary
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April 1st, 2010, 07:09 PM
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I am feeling a lot better but my three losses were early.
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