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April 10th, 2010, 10:49 AM
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That they scheduled our 18 week BIG ultrasound where they check all the organs, brain, heart, etc. for 4/21, which was also my EDD for the baby I lost in September. I just feel like we are jinxed going into the appointment because of the sadness surrounding that date I just wish it could have been any other day but that one
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April 10th, 2010, 11:43 AM
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Or it could be a sign from your little Angel.. That everything will be ok. HUGS.. I am so sorry on this day you should be happy... not torn.. HUGS
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April 10th, 2010, 12:13 PM
*MomofO&Nat*'s Avatar Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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I am trying to look at it that way, Kary. I just can't believe my 'luck' sometimes.
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April 10th, 2010, 12:30 PM
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I agree with Kary! I think somone wants you to think of "that" day as a much happier day than you used to!
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April 10th, 2010, 03:06 PM
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aw I can understand why that would make you feel sad/worried...

I find it so hard to think positive when things from this pregnancy (or from Gaby's) fall in line with a loss date, or loss gestation... so hard to not think "it's a sign... a bad one". I do agree with the other ladies though - I think it is a sign from your angel

if you are really worried about it, you could ring & try to reschedule?
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April 10th, 2010, 06:02 PM
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HUGS! Think of it that some of the sadness will be replaced with the joy of seeing your little one wiggling around. It will be a bitter sweet day for sure. You could always change the date if you are really not comfortable with it.
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April 10th, 2010, 08:23 PM
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I have to agree with Kary also....
I lost my baby on Oct 26 2006.....I got my BFP with Katie Oct 26, 2007....
not that we ever forget the sad days....but sometimes they have a way of being very happy ones....our angels do watch over us...
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