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  #1  
April 12th, 2010, 01:41 PM
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Our sono today did not go well. The heartbeat we saw a week and a half ago is gone. The baby stopped growing at 6.5 weeks, not too long after the last sono. We are so incredibly sad. I have to go in for a d&c tomorrow. The dr is going to do some tests after a couple of weeks and might send us to a fertility specialist (it took us almost a year to get pregnant before the 1st loss). I appreciate all the support you ladies have given me. I am sorry I have not been very active here, there's just been so much going on. I will you all happy and healthy pregnancies.
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April 12th, 2010, 01:55 PM
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I'm so sorry sweetie. HUGS
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April 12th, 2010, 02:14 PM
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Aw sweetie I am so sorry If you need anything.... just say so! We are here for you.


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On 1/31/12 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss
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April 12th, 2010, 02:34 PM
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I'm so very sorry to hear this!!
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April 12th, 2010, 02:51 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss
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April 12th, 2010, 03:23 PM
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I am so so so sorry. It's bad enough to go through this once - let alone twice. I've been there. So so sorry - I wish I could magic it away! I'm glad you can have some testing done - come talk when ever you want - and we will be here for you when you're back.
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April 12th, 2010, 04:49 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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April 12th, 2010, 05:42 PM
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I am so sorry, it just isn't fair
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April 12th, 2010, 06:01 PM
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I'm so sorry!!!!!
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April 12th, 2010, 07:06 PM
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I am so so sorry
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April 12th, 2010, 07:34 PM
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I'm so sorry.
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April 12th, 2010, 07:41 PM
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I'm very very sorry. Please take care of yourself...big HUGS!
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April 12th, 2010, 10:12 PM
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I am so very sorry hon....
I am hoping that you recover quickly from the d & c and also that you get the answers you need for when you are ready to TTC again.
you are in our thoughts....we are all here for you
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April 13th, 2010, 06:43 AM
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I'm so very sorry. I do hope you are able to get some testing done now though. You are in my thoughts...
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April 13th, 2010, 07:54 AM
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I'm so sorry

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April 13th, 2010, 09:26 AM
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby. I hope that the procedure goes well and you recover and are able to get some answers. Sometimes they help. I'll be keeping you in my T&P.

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April 13th, 2010, 09:32 AM
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I am so sorry.. HUGS
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April 13th, 2010, 10:55 AM
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I'm so sorry. I hope your D&C goes smoothly today.
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