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  #1  
April 20th, 2010, 09:59 PM
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I haven't been on much, and when I am I tend to post mostly in the Aug 2010 DDC.

Anyway Ruth was born on Sunday and was born live. She passed about an hour and a half later. i am still struggling a lot. I was fine before and thought I was ok with all of this, but now I try to sleep and I do nothing but think about it. I miss having her inside of me. I never felt her kick, but at 21 weeks, she was such apart of me already. She had so many issues going on had she been born full term, its unlikely she would be able to live. But none of this comforts me anymore and I just want her back inside me where she was safe.
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April 20th, 2010, 10:30 PM
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I'm so sorry Sarah. I know there are no words that can make you feel better. Please know that I am here for you no matter what. I wouldn't wish a poor prenatal diagnosis on anyone and it just breaks my heart that you're going through this.
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April 20th, 2010, 10:31 PM
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Oh my I am so sorry for your loss hun - I can't even imagine how you must be feeling right now..

You are in my thoughts (((Hugs))) be gentle with yourself, okay?

I just wanted to say, your siggy is beautiful - and whatsmore, your little girl is beautiful in every sense of the word
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April 20th, 2010, 10:32 PM
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I know I told you this already but Ruth is beautiful! Looking at your beautiful siggy brings me to tears.
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April 21st, 2010, 05:11 AM
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Sarah, your baby girl is breath taking beautiful.........I pray you and your family get through this with the strength of God next to all of you.
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April 21st, 2010, 06:35 AM
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Sarah, my heart is breaking hun. I'm so sorry you lost your baby. She is so beautiful and I love the name Ruth Marie, a perfect fit for her.

Take the time you need and allow yourself to grieve her. Keeping you and your family in my heart and prayers.
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April 21st, 2010, 06:48 AM
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What a beaultiful little girl

I am sorry she is no longer with you My heart breaks for you.

Lots of

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April 21st, 2010, 08:27 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Ruth is a beautiful angel! Many thoughts and prayers coming your way.
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April 21st, 2010, 08:27 AM
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Sarah,

We have not met, but I am crying for you and your family. I am so very sorry for you loss and you are in my thoughts and prayers. Your baby girl is so beautiful.

I will keep your family in my prayers.

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April 21st, 2010, 09:11 AM
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Your little girl was truly beautiful and deserves a place among the angels. I'm so sorry for your loss. She will always be a part of you. I'll be praying for you and your family.
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April 21st, 2010, 10:12 AM
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Hi, you don't know me either but I have been thinking of you...I have a couple friends in the Aug DDC...they shared your story with us. I am so very sorry for you loss. Your baby girl is beautiful.

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April 21st, 2010, 10:22 AM
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I am so very sorry for your loss. You don't know me either but I have ready your story and have found the strength you and your DH have, to carry your child until it was Gods time, just absolutly moving. Please know you are in my prayers.

Your daughter is beautiful!
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April 21st, 2010, 11:44 AM
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Your daughter is beautiful....thank you for sharing. Huge hugs to you and your family. I know this is such a difficult time for you. Hang in there.
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April 21st, 2010, 12:16 PM
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I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. She is beautiful. I am just so so sorry.
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April 21st, 2010, 12:52 PM
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Oh Sarah, I am so sorry Ruth is so beautiful.

Thinking of you and your angel.
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April 21st, 2010, 01:17 PM
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I am so sorry.. RUth is a beautiful little girl.. She is among angels.. I wish I could take your pain away. HUGS...
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April 21st, 2010, 04:43 PM
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. I hope that you have lots of love and support to help you with your pain. I'll pray for your family and your angel, Ruth.
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April 21st, 2010, 04:44 PM
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I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little girl. HUGS
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April 21st, 2010, 07:41 PM
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Oh What a beautiful Siggy you have. I am so sorry about the loss of your daughter.
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April 22nd, 2010, 12:27 AM
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I am so sorry for you loss
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